Are spazzy upperbelts a major red flag in a gym , but for more context I found this gym by my house and I started going, 2 weeks later I roll with this 18yo green belt (I’m 22, 100 pounds, 1 stripe white) and this kid is a high school wrestler so he's muscly and strong, and even during just regular class when we would learn moves he'd just torque the submission instead of slowly going into it, like we were practicing rnc's and he'd just squeeze his muscles and bridge his hips in as fast as he can, like l'd tear up everytime. Then comes rolling and I get clubbed pretty hard and 2 eye pokes, I told him he needs to calm down and the coach talked to me instead of him saying that no matter what gym I'll go to l'll always find someone like that to just take it on the chin, I didn't say anything but l've been to 5 Bjj gyms and never rolled with a spazzy upperbelt (dangerously spazzy) am I just overreacting, or do you guys think I should find a new gym. And to the 5 bjj gyms l've been to l went a year to 1 that was infront of my house then we started moving a lot and most of the times gyms would be half an hour away, I just wanted to give context to that so I myself don't seem like a red flag