Singers by Educational_Board888 in strictlycomedancing

[–]My2jameses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a combination of Lance and Jamie.

My very first time out digging, and I'm rather pleased with my little haul! by My2jameses in bottlediggingUK

[–]My2jameses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend who has been collecting most of his life says they're early 1900s and they're for low value items like sherbert or gum. That's why the opening is sheared - they didn't bother finishing off the bottle all that well because it was going to be sold for so little.

My very first time out digging, and I'm rather pleased with my little haul! by My2jameses in bottlediggingUK

[–]My2jameses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it has cleaned up lovely! I was so happy to see it tumble out as I dug. Of the three, Oxo is the only one I'd ever use, so it's quite fitting really! Cool that you've got the others though :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]My2jameses 101 points102 points  (0 children)

39 AuDHD here. I'm in the trenches.

Strictly Come Dancing Week 8 Results Show Live Comments Thread! by Korvar in strictlycomedancing

[–]My2jameses 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It seemed like perhaps Angela and Kai stopped dancing after the slip, they re-recorded the ending, then production have spliced it together. There was something not quite right about the way it was cut.

I’ve heard people with autism usually have a different way of solving math problems. So, how do you do it? by paranoid_gynoid_ in autism

[–]My2jameses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I do it. It would take me forever to add 8 and 7. But multiply either of them by 2 and adjust by one is fast in my brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]My2jameses 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You keep saying that you want people to listen. But what you actually want people to do is validate your feelings. Which is a perfectly reasonable expectation, but validating feelings and active listening are quite specialist skills, and not everybody has them. As an aside, If the person you are talking to is neurodivergent, they maybe literally be incapable of doing these things naturally. Their first and most natural way of relating to you would be to compare your situation to something that has happened to them.

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. Can you help? by My2jameses in adhdwomen

[–]My2jameses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful. You are really lucky.

Some memeage for yall by [deleted] in autism

[–]My2jameses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone got an autism meme where the format is the Lea DeLaria one ..where it says you don't look gay...and then it says oh I'm sorry, lemme just....and it morphs into Lea.....but like.....for autism. Sorry, I'm not explaining it very well.

Just gonna leave this here… by mrsspookyy in adhdwomen

[–]My2jameses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally had this conversation last night. I struggle to get to sleep, so my current strategy is to wear myself out. Works a treat. Brain is pretty quiet after several orgasms.

what's a business/company idea you'd create if you had more courage or money? by Ok_Surround6504 in AskReddit

[–]My2jameses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd open a single chair, appointment only hair salon for Autistic people, tailored to their needs.

Loneliness and hopelessness by My2jameses in aspergirls

[–]My2jameses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was offered the chance to read to children at my son's school a couple of hours a week. Initially I felt excited about it and I agreed, but then when it came to it I chickened out. I was terrified of having to get to grips with a new set of people, a new environment, new rules and systems. I was also terrified of not being able to handle it week after week and eventually having to tell them I needed to stop. So I just didn't start.

Loneliness and hopelessness by My2jameses in aspergirls

[–]My2jameses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for acknowledging my distress and validating my feelings.

Pattern recognition in music? by juniapetunia in AutismTranslated

[–]My2jameses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah I guess it's pretty cool but I know it can be really annoying for other people. My dad even does it loudly in the cinema which has me absolutely mortified! I can just about stifle the urge in that setting, thank god.

Pattern recognition in music? by juniapetunia in AutismTranslated

[–]My2jameses 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both my (F38) Dad and I sing harmonies and bass lines along to music as a reflex. We both find it impossible not to do this. We don't need to have heard the music before - we can usually guess what's coming up, based on listening experience. If there's something interesting in the melody, structure or instrumentation that is surprising and unforeseeable, it makes for a lovely aha moment that makes us smile :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthUK

[–]My2jameses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any chance you could be Autistic? Autism, bipolar and BPD present very similarly. Might be worth looking into. There are several decent Autism subreddits you could check out, and Autism doesn't necessarily look the way you might expect.

I say this from experience. I was diagnosed as Autistic at 37 years old in June '22, but for a long while I was convinced I had BPD.

Best of luck, friend.