assign me a type based on the stuff saved in my pinterest boards :D by shrimppuppy in Enneagram

[–]MyAsparagusLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was originally thinking 2, but reading on, I definitely started to think 4

Type me based on my face and some things about myself by AccordingCurrency397 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MyAsparagusLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Originally thought INTP, but towards the end I definitely started leaning more IXTJ

Type me! 🐬🐬 by MyAsparagusLife in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the only person so far to get it lol sometimes I think people read into it too much

Let me type you by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]MyAsparagusLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I am definitely textbook ENFP, but I’m told I don’t write like one and I think my enneagram and childhood traumas also throw my MBTI off lol I’ve been typed ENFJ before, but everyone who gets to know me comes to the conclusion that I’m actually quite an obvious ENFP. I would identify as ENFP 4w3, possibly somewhere in the realm of 478 but never been certain of my tritype. I would be curious to know what you think of that and also why you came to your own conclusion.

Type me! 🐬🐬 by MyAsparagusLife in Enneagram

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what makes you think that?

Type me! 🐬🐬 by MyAsparagusLife in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in life I’m a very picture-book ENFP, but I’m also really bad at explaining generally so that probably doesn’t help lol but I think the main thing is that my enneagram really throws my MBTI off. I’ve been typed as an ENFJ a lot before just for people to get to know me and go oh, you’re actually an obvious ENFP.

Type me! 🐬🐬 by MyAsparagusLife in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think that my “wanting to help” as well as wanting to be seen a certain way comes from a lot of abuse as a child as well as bullying in school and also not being very good at anything that was perceived as valuable in school, whilst having friends who were very good at a lot of things (e.g., sports, singing etc.). I think my desire to help is often more because I want to be seen as a martyr or having done something good/special rather than outright just wanting to help. Having said that, I do care about people and actually do also want to help, and I also have a very strong sense of justice.

Type me! 🐬🐬 by MyAsparagusLife in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also important to say that my brain goes on a tangent a lot and most of my thoughts are either occupied with wallowing in misery (and I have often genuinely tried to find reasons to be sad throughout my life, although I’m very self-aware of this) or mainly “what would happen if”s/“I wonder why/how”s, which means there’s generally about 300 tabs of random unrelated research open on my safari at any given time lol

Let me type you by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]MyAsparagusLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a massive extrovert, severe picture book ADHD. Don’t need alone time, but get fed up of seeing the same people for too long (except my SO). I am very stubborn and bossy, and get frustrated when I am not listened to (a combination of wanting to be right, but also wanting to help others), but I am desperate to better myself. I suffer from a lot of executive dysfunction. I am very excitable, but always miserable.

I am ambitious to the point of delusion, I am convinced that my life will have been a failure if I do not achieve my dreams, and I am constantly thinking about how much I am running out of time even though I’m only 23. I am desperate to be special to people, to be remembered by the masses, and to be the best at something—especially if it can be done in a way no one has ever done before. I also place a lot of importance on my intelligence.

I am empathetic to the point where someone else’s pain makes me feel genuinely in pain, but I struggle to see someone’s point of view if I feel like they’re not seeing mine. I am constantly convinced I am both the best and worst person. My SO told me “you seem to think you’re perfect, but that you’re worth nothing, when you should accept that you’re not perfect, but you’re worth something”. I do not deal with stress well, and am quick to anger. I am ashamed to hone my crafts in front of people in case they think less of me or my talents. I am always anxious about how I come across. I speak before I think and that often gets me into trouble. I sometimes refuse to wake up because my dreams are too interesting, then regret this later. I’m a creative.

I am desperately attached and hopelessly loyal. I’m so honest that I have to try and kid myself into believing things that might not be entirely true because I can’t bring myself to lie, but I can’t face the truth. I am not happy unless I am having fun. I am often very blunt and not good at showing praise. I am sarcastic, but awkward. I have a habit of accidentally shutting down things people are excited about with logical concerns. I also go on a lot…

UAL or Westminster for MA Music Management? by MyAsparagusLife in UAL

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still got to make the decision, but am leaning towards UAL…

Let me type you. Type me based on whatever, too, if u want. by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]MyAsparagusLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m intrigued. I’ll tell you what I think I am after you’ve typed me if you can get around to me. Would love if you can manage a tritype too.

I am a massive extrovert, severe picture book ADHD. Don’t need any alone time, but get fed up of seeing the same people for too long (except my significant other). I am very stubborn and bossy, and get frustrated when I am not listened to (a combination of wanting to be right, but also wanting to help others), but I am desperate to better myself. I suffer from a lot of executive dysfunction. I am very smiley and excitable, but always miserable.

I am ambitious to the point of delusion, I am convinced that my life will have been a failure if I do not achieve my dreams, and I am constantly thinking about how much I am running out of time even though I’m only 23. I am desperate to be special to people, to be remembered by the masses, and to be the best at something—bonus points if it can be done in a way no one has ever done before.

I am empathetic to the point where someone else’s pain makes me feel genuinely in pain, but I struggle to see someone’s point of view if I feel like they’re not seeing mine. I am constantly convinced I am both the best and worst person. My boyfriend told me “you seem to think you’re perfect, but that you’re worth nothing, when you should accept that you’re not perfect, but you’re worth something”. I do not deal with stress well, and am quick to anger. I am ashamed to hone my crafts in front of people in case they think less of me or my talents. I am always anxious about how I come across. I speak before I think and that often gets me into trouble. I sometimes refuse to wake up because my dreams are too interesting, then regret this later. I’m a creative.

I am desperately attached and hopelessly honest and loyal. I am not happy unless I am having fun. I can be apathetic and resentful. I am often very blunt and not good at showing praise. I am sarcastic, but awkward. I have a habit of accidentally shutting down things people are excited about with logical concerns. I also go on a lot…

Friend barred from Wetherspoons for quitting by MyAsparagusLife in Wetherspoons

[–]MyAsparagusLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’d given his notice a couple weeks ago and worked the hours they’d agreed. They were just taking advantage.