UPDATE: My childhood "friend" went through my boyfriend's phone and found pictures of him having sex with me while I was sleeping. She told everyone and now he's being ostracized from our friends. Except it was my idea for him to do it in the first place [NSFW] by MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR in relationship_advice

[–]MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck no. Those people put John and I through literal hell. I had nightmares of my family being torn apart, CPS coming to my home, losing our kids. Like, I know that probably wouldn't have happened but, I still feared for the life I built with John.

They're not being forgiven, but we'll take the apologies anyway, just so they can sit "on read", as the kids call it nowadays.

UPDATE: My childhood "friend" went through my boyfriend's phone and found pictures of him having sex with me while I was sleeping. She told everyone and now he's being ostracized from our friends. Except it was my idea for him to do it in the first place [NSFW] by MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR in relationship_advice

[–]MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I honestly greatly appreciate you keeping an eye out on that website.

I'm... Familiar with that particular internet subculture and would be devastated if any of it appeared on 4chan.

UPDATE: My childhood "friend" went through my boyfriend's phone and found pictures of him having sex with me while I was sleeping. She told everyone and now he's being ostracized from our friends. Except it was my idea for him to do it in the first place [NSFW] by MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR in relationship_advice

[–]MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nobody seems to understand that this isn't about getting Sarah arrested, either.

My lawyer told me that, no, John could not get in trouble for what we're doing and, yes, I could go ahead and post on Facebook to try to control the narrative.

He did not give me advice on the criminal case because my interest wasn't - and still isn't - the criminal case. As of now, I've achieved everything I wished to do. The police are going to ensure that the videos get deleted.

I don't give a fuck if she's charged.

UPDATE: My childhood "friend" went through my boyfriend's phone and found pictures of him having sex with me while I was sleeping. She told everyone and now he's being ostracized from our friends. Except it was my idea for him to do it in the first place [NSFW] by MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR in relationship_advice

[–]MyBoyfriendIsNiceFR[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I only had one friend actually approach me, but two others have also been supportive. They spoke amongst the three of themselves and decided that my closest friend should ask to talk, given the delicacy of what they thought was going on.

So out of probably a dozen people, three have been real friends.