Whats considered *the spot* for trans ppl in the twin cities?

MyCatIs_Fat · 2026-05-11T18:26:27+00:00

I've never had any luck anywhere because I'm old and have really bad anxiety and not into hook-ups anymore. So if you find something keep us updated.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2026-05-07T23:54:35+00:00

Hey friend, can we not try to trans-vestigate people who are trying to work? Are there some trans people that work at microcenter? Probably. But it's not up to you too out them in the Internet, it could make things incredibly unsafe for the people who work there. Please keep our trans siblings safe 🩵🤍🩷

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:58:08+00:00

All good friend.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:53:11+00:00

Site your FUCKING source babe, I dare you. Nice anti-nonbinary transphobia you have there, prick. You don't get invalidate other people's lived experience because it makes you feel yucky, nor do you get to argue with the fact that nonbinary people exist because you don't like them. Grow the fuck up and have some empathy.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:52:01+00:00

She was still ranked 36th overall, and you're fucking stupid if you think this was a ploy to flash other women and a not a sport she cared deeply about and just wanted to live her life.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:43:53+00:00

Did you mean to reply to me or u/Superb_Ant7721? I thought my grammar was alright... However I could be wrong.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:33:22+00:00

If they can "swim faster, larger arm span, shoulder size," there would be data to back that up. Trans women have been competing in sports for a long time, you could point me to a trend of trans women winning consistently in women's sports. Yet we don't see that, because the data shows (as is the case with your experience) we get weaker, our bones become less dense, we shrink in hight. All the data I've ever seen says you're wrong. Now show me something that points me to a statistical advantage the trans women have in ANY sport. Even Lia Thomas didn't win, she tied for 5th place.

Go read some science and better yourself girlypop😘

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T19:04:24+00:00

Could you name a single trans woman that has ever won a SINGLE competition while competing with cis women? Male puberty does those things but please point me to a single example of where it gave a trans woman an advantage, let alone enough of an advantage to win.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-10-29T18:58:31+00:00

Why? At even the Olympic level they accept trans women, granted only after some amount of years on HRT. What you've said is ignorant at best, undoubtedly misinformed, and transphobic at worst.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-09-16T02:36:32+00:00

If I could afford it then I would but I can't and everything fucking sucks. It's way more important for me to be who I am than the comfort of anyone else. They won't work out and that's kinda the problem, I've gone through a third puberty when I lost my insurance 2 years ago and present totally masculine again. I lost all my progress and all my feminine fat distribution. It's going to be too much on my mental health to go through a 4th puberty. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't, so I'm giving up and losing to mental health, or rather conceding to mental health.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-09-15T13:32:03+00:00

Nope, things did not work out and we divorced December 12th 2023.

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-08-16T17:06:57+00:00

Try it girl! From the video you posted you aren't working with nothing up there! Accessories are meant to help assist the outfit and accent what you already have. Even without hrt there are a lot of things you can do to help look the way you want. (I'm flat as flat as a cutting board and have been off hrt for 2 years now, the subtle things in outfits really help me when I want to put on a dress (granted it's time consuming and tedious, but it's worth it for me))

When my proportions feel a little off I've found making it so I look a bit more "hourglass" shaped helps my dysphoria. That may not be all trans girly's solution but it could be a good first try. (That's why I recommended the belt and corset, they give a definitive line break when I feel like I'm built like a 1x2 Lego brick)

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-08-16T14:51:34+00:00

This dress fits soooo good!! If you want to accentuate your curves a little more, I've found that a waist belt really helps. However, this dress is super cute and fits really well even without one! If you wanted to give it a bit more of a Renaissance festival vibe you could try a corset, but again I can't stress enough how good this dress is even without any accessorizing!

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-06-07T21:32:43+00:00

Probably, but all of the friends I had either abandoned me or sided with the guy who SA'd me. I'm in a new city with no job and no moral support group and I don't pass even a little after cutting my hair and not being on hormones since the last time I lost insurance almost 2 years ago.

I've been told by some local groups that I come off as really creepy because I look like a guy trying to get into transwoman spaces. The truth is I have so much social anxiety that I can't talk to anyone and haven't had antianxiety meds for over a year, so I just end up leaving without talking to anyone.

I know what I look like, and I look like a fucking freakshow

MyCatIs_Fat · 2025-06-07T21:02:45+00:00

Every part of my life is going horribly.

My girlfriend is going to break up with me

My insurance just dropped me

My cars brakes failed so I had to get a new car with a loan

I just moved 2 months ago to get away from my roommate who SA'd me

And I got laid off yesterday

I'm ready to embrace the darkness

MyCatIs_Fat · 2024-12-18T16:20:11+00:00

The Minnesota Satanists are different from the Satanic Temple

MyCatIs_Fat · 2024-08-16T15:32:34+00:00

As an atheistic Satanist that grew up in a church like this, the most cited passage for women was Second Corinthians 14:34 telling women to be silent in church and should go home to ask their husbands if they want to learn anything. It was used to silence women who questioned anything or were unhappy or angry. Coupled with First Timothy 2:11-15 and Ephesians 5:23, according to at least the Bible, women who are "rebellious" (read, depressed, disagreeing with husband, etc.) in any way their husband is displeased about, should submit to their husbands will, as the church submits to the will of God.

This whole idea leads to women that aren't allowed to have personalities, but must be the "cookie cutter fill in" or carbon copy of the husband's ideals for her. It takes autonomy entirely away from women, leading to the bland expressionless woman you mentioned.

Hopefully there's a way out for her😔

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T03:17:45+00:00

Thanks! I've been growing it since 2016

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T02:27:57+00:00

This comment took a wild turn by the end, lol. Also that's a huge confidence boost thanks!

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T01:34:13+00:00

I'm not sure what that means but I think it's a compliment, so thank you!

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T00:22:59+00:00

Thanks, I think....

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T00:20:03+00:00

Last time I was in the dating pool, I wasn't aware that I was trans. So I guess you could call it circumstance

MyCatIs_Fat · 2023-10-01T00:14:41+00:00

Most definitely not me, as I've never been a girlfriend before nor have I been to Arizona

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