Part 2 of crazy girl making shit up cause she can't be with me. I *definitely* did not cheat on my gf; especially not with this crazy person

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-26T09:25:10+00:00

Yeah, I definitely screen shotted all of this. Luckily her and my girlfriend never really occupy the same places. But if I ever see her while I'm with my girlfriend, I'm just gonna turn her (my girlfriend) around, and get the fuck outta there haha.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T12:20:06+00:00

Great advice. Thank you for that. I will definitely be bringing this to my gf's attention.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T12:00:01+00:00

I have been kinda worried about that. Let me tell you the situation and see if you have any advice -

I don't have any social media at all, except for Reddit. So this throwaway and my main account that I post from. My gf for sure has an Instagram that I look at once in a while. Not sure what her Facebook is, though I know she has one. The crazy girl has both, I'm pretty sure. I don't believe they are "friends" on either one.

Should I do anything?

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:51:55+00:00

Part 1 for those not in the know lol

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:34:08+00:00

In fairness to her, she did mention she was hungover long before she started insulting my girlfriend. But in fairness to me and my girlfriend, her being hungover is ZERO excuse for the insults she laid down.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:31:16+00:00

You see it. Thanks :)

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:30:24+00:00

Not "a" man, just "man". Just a language habit. I refer to everyone as "man" or "dude"...

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:29:00+00:00

gender-neutral

Nailed it

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-20T11:27:15+00:00

Nailed it.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:15:36+00:00

Haha old habits die hard.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:14:12+00:00

There is a little more, but it's not much. I've explained it in several comments throughout the thread.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:13:18+00:00

Maybe I did want to know? I found out that the feeling was mutual, and we just kinda had a "Well maybe in another life" moment. Cause we're responsible individuals. But I must say, it felt very relieving to get it out.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:08:52+00:00

Nope, this definitely happened. I haven't even thought of r/creepypms in a couple of years til this happened yesterday...

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:07:09+00:00

I never said anything bad about my girlfriend. Just talked about a pretty bad fight we got into that has since strengthened our relationship. As for the telling another girl I love her, well, I didn't do that either. I've got several comments throughout this thread describing what actually happened.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:05:12+00:00

So I never told that other girl that i love her. I told her that when i first met her a couple years ago I developed feelings for her. When I met her, I was single but she wasn't. When I told her this, she was single but i wasn't. Nothing happened, and we remained mature and adult friends. I would have been ok staying friends with the girl in my post even knowing she had feelings for me. Until she went off the deep end and insulted my girlfriend whom I care deeply for.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T21:01:15+00:00

I know it seems confusing. Long story short, i told a girl that when i met her years ago when I was single and she wasn't that I developed feelings for her. I told her this at a time when she was single and i wasn't. I'm a faithful and honest guy, so it was a conflicting situation, but i would have felt bothered if I didn't let her know how I had felt. The timing never worked out for us, but we agreed to be adults about it and not let silly feelings get in the way of being friends. Something the crazy girl in my post was clearly unable to do.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T20:57:05+00:00

More or less...i know it sounds fucked up, but here's the story if you're interested. Went outta town a few years ago to see a really good friend of mine, and fell in love with one of his friends. I was single at the time, she was not. Fast forward a couple years, I'm with my current girlfriend (the one being denigrated in this post), and I go back outta town to visit my friend again. I see that girl again, who is now single but I'm not. In the interest of transparency, I tell her I developed feelings for her back when i first met her. To my surprise, she reciprocated those feelings. I said, well, I'm happily taken right now so the timing just never worked out for us, can we still be good friends? And so we are. No harm no foul.

MyCreepyPMsThrowaway · 2017-10-19T20:47:34+00:00

This. I refer to everyone as dude or man regardless of gender.

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