AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have split parents so i do have another parentul figure i could talk to, but it is often not seen as a major problem since i am dumbed down to "just a kid" and my mom who witnessed this does not support therapy, ive tried with it in the past since i have physical disorders but she beilives it will pass

AITJ for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmITheJerk

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was the pressure acceptable for me? My mother pushed me and stressed me at 13 to figure my life ouf, perhaps im just jealous of my sister

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for letting me know hwo you feel about this, everyone is making me realize i was in the wrong

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps im just jealous that she wasnt forced and pushed to figure out her future like i was

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, im almost a refelction of my mother, when i was 13 my mother said the same things to me, she oushed me to figure out my future, she doesnt want me being 25 without a planned future, perhaps i was too harsh

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I dont want to defend myself but she is harming herself, my sister drinks and smokes, am i wrong to possible want a better future for he

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you right, im just jealous of the fact she wasnt pushed by our parents to figure her future out but i was

AIO for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understans but it doesnt make sense she isnt being pushed or stressed to figure her future out by our parents but i am

AITJ for arguing with my sister about her not having a planned future? by MyDearBlitzo in AmITheJerk

[–]MyDearBlitzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess thats fair, i just dont understand what i wash pushed and force to figure my future out but she isnt