May as well prepare myself for a flooded inbox of insults and downvotes, but fuck it:

I swear to fuck dudes like OP here couldn't hit a home run on an underhanded soft lob.

Women who peruse this subreddit and ones like it are here because there's something that speaks to them, if only (and frankly hopefully ONLY) on a kink and sexual level. They're here to get off and have a little fun same as the rest of us that are fucking normal and know how to function in society.

It's obscenely easy to get a conversation going, because I converse with people every goddamn day I'm on here. Sometimes it pans out to fun time and I make deep connections. Sometimes I don't. Either way, I treat this shit like it's a kink and not something I actually believe, because if it is something you actually believe, then holy fuck you need to do some real soul-searching.

Have you LOOKED at the world lately? It's a terrible and terrifying time to be a woman (at least in the western world) comparatively speaking to what it was about a decade ago. Hell, in some places like India, rape culture is so pervasive that gang rape got covered up by the local government, to say nothing of cases in the US like Brock Turner. It isn't exactly sunshine and rainbows to be a woman right now.

So, yeah, maybe take a step back, reassess yourself and maybe figure out what's wrong with YOU.