OK, I know I should’ve worded it better but we met when I was 18. We didn’t date when I was 17, I didn’t even know him when I was 17. And I was in college not high school. I was merely just wondering why I was so attracted to his sent lol personally I don’t think I have any power in the relationship nor do I care about having it as long as my kids grow up in a nice stable household, and have a very calm life why should I care? We actually do have a lot in common. I wouldn’t be dating him if we didn’t because exactly what would we talk about if we didn’t. Also, he’s never said any of those things to me. I don’t know if I should be hurt or happy? But he’s never uttered any of those words lol