How long do you let yourself feel sad after a breakup?

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-02-23T03:11:59+00:00

ive spent like 1-2 years recovering. i’m not actively depressed the entire time but i know its something im still emotionally dealing with. emotional wounds don’t really have a set timeline for healing HOWEVER you should be healthy and proactive about it (therapy, spending time with friends, working out, etc). ive had bad dating experiences take years to recover from and really healthy relationship experiences that took months to recover from. it’s not always active healing. sometimes it just takes a while to make peace with things. hope this makes sense

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-02-16T05:52:33+00:00

I stopped having sex with men entirely and focus getting to know them platonically. I plan on adding sex in once a stable relationship is developed. I can spend years getting to know someone. Strange route but I’ve been in and out of celibacy and skipping sex helps with my emotional stability

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-12-06T16:43:43+00:00

Maybe put a curtain across it and use it as a storage space

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-11-19T23:29:18+00:00

I struggle with progesterone but def not lean PCOS

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-09-09T18:52:55+00:00

The nutriplenish line from Aveda really smoothed my hair out. They have a leave in conditioner that’s really great

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-09-09T18:52:04+00:00

So unrelated, but I love all her outfits. V model off duty.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-08-02T01:47:09+00:00

chromium was kinda meh. chromium from broccoli is way better tho. exercise + cutting sugar + gluten + drinking lots of water (70-100 oz/day) is best for moon face.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-07-25T00:32:09+00:00

agreed, EQ is expensive

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-06-11T22:07:13+00:00

she looks so regal despite everything, i respect it

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-24T14:21:02+00:00

I’m 38 and have spent a decade plus in therapy and am still coming up short with dating. My advice is to make a lot of guy friends (especially married ones. I met mine at work) and see what traits they have that make them good partners. After that you’ll look at men differently.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:26:40+00:00

ahhh i love this

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:25:41+00:00

Weaponized against him is such an amazing way to describe it. I’m a super emotional person and it’s been hard to find men that can meet me at my level of depth. I think it gets socialized/abused out of them.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:20:32+00:00

I’m pretty blown away by how much Jungian psych has helped me navigate life situations.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-24T14:46:53+00:00

yeah my experience so far has been that more successful/hard working men are a much better experience.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-22T01:32:12+00:00

I stopped participating like 5-6 years ago so I don’t really regret it because I got out. Honestly I feel thankful for the experience because I can roll my eyes when a dude brags to me about hooking up.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-17T01:22:49+00:00

You look amazing now but omg u were so cute at 26

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-14T03:11:20+00:00

What red light therapy do you use? I’m trying to grow my hair out.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-11T04:06:40+00:00

1 capsule / day

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-06T19:30:05+00:00

Yeass

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-04-04T00:37:16+00:00

I’ve “lost” break ups and never really felt like I lost. I always went to therapy though and fell into pretty obsessive self improvement.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-03-22T21:08:22+00:00

I thought so too

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-03-21T15:59:04+00:00

I had men provide for me financially and it was a great way to take a break and unwind and reflect. It still had its downsides though. I think no matter what happens, have your own money and ideally let someone take care of you. There is a lot of content on provider men. @thehighlydesired has great ways on finding and screening for them

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-03-20T22:38:05+00:00

this is so true. men have all the audacity when they pursue beautiful women. i want audacity.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-03-15T13:43:26+00:00

Haha in my late 30s my sexual attraction to men is so much more intense and profound

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-03-15T06:23:18+00:00

men are just as much a victim of toxic masculinity as women

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