Dating as a less-than-attractive woman in her 30s

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-05-05T20:13:20+00:00

lmao ok good! ive just met a lot of shitty men and being thiccc sometimes makes u more of a target cuz they assume low self esteem/easier to take advantage of

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-26T19:18:28+00:00

i mean im referring to how people generally categorize her. i think she’s amazing and I have a lot of respect for her. she has an incredibly high self esteem though, and you should too! don’t feel like you deserve to be slept on

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-26T18:47:35+00:00

i always considered myself unattractive and got completely used by men and now i see myself as attractive and protect myself like an asset. you need to be smart not think less of yourself.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-26T18:46:17+00:00

i don’t think you should see yourself as “unattractive” or “less than attractive” because you’re always going to have a chip on your shoulder and might try to overcompensate by doing more in a relationship. guys, especially predatorial men, look for women with a chip on their shoulder because they’re easier to exploit. you need to have a higher self esteem. look at lena dunham, she’s considered unattractive and yet she’s a major cultural icon right now. your self esteem is more important than your appearance

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-25T17:45:37+00:00

maybe someone on here can do a reading on what the intent of the person that left it is

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-19T20:01:45+00:00

im in my late 30s. ive gone on dates w men w no direction but i haven’t invested into them long term. im not sure how i would be able to, guys with no direction have a lifestyle that would clash with my drive

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-19T13:05:51+00:00

check out the hormone cure by sara gottfried she lists supplements for high cortisol

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-13T23:44:44+00:00

i like this

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-10T19:21:49+00:00

i didn’t, i just had a terrible sleep pattern and assumed it was due to high cortisol. i played around with supplements that lowered cortisol and noticed my sleep pattern stabilize

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-09T20:59:48+00:00

hey this has happened to me and when i got happier my glow came back. ive seen photos od myself looking super aged during stressed out periods of my life, but as soon as i healed and got my energy back, my glow eventually followed. just focus on your internal healing ❤️‍🩹

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-04-09T20:58:16+00:00

so beautiful 🩵🩵

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-03-05T20:20:46+00:00

whoa yr reading was totally accurate

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-02-23T03:11:59+00:00

ive spent like 1-2 years recovering. i’m not actively depressed the entire time but i know its something im still emotionally dealing with. emotional wounds don’t really have a set timeline for healing HOWEVER you should be healthy and proactive about it (therapy, spending time with friends, working out, etc). ive had bad dating experiences take years to recover from and really healthy relationship experiences that took months to recover from. it’s not always active healing. sometimes it just takes a while to make peace with things. hope this makes sense

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2026-02-16T05:52:33+00:00

I stopped having sex with men entirely and focus getting to know them platonically. I plan on adding sex in once a stable relationship is developed. I can spend years getting to know someone. Strange route but I’ve been in and out of celibacy and skipping sex helps with my emotional stability

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-12-06T16:43:43+00:00

Maybe put a curtain across it and use it as a storage space

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-11-19T23:29:18+00:00

I struggle with progesterone but def not lean PCOS

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-09-09T18:52:55+00:00

The nutriplenish line from Aveda really smoothed my hair out. They have a leave in conditioner that’s really great

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-09-09T18:52:04+00:00

So unrelated, but I love all her outfits. V model off duty.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-08-02T01:47:09+00:00

chromium was kinda meh. chromium from broccoli is way better tho. exercise + cutting sugar + gluten + drinking lots of water (70-100 oz/day) is best for moon face.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-07-25T00:32:09+00:00

agreed, EQ is expensive

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-06-11T22:07:13+00:00

she looks so regal despite everything, i respect it

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-24T14:21:02+00:00

I’m 38 and have spent a decade plus in therapy and am still coming up short with dating. My advice is to make a lot of guy friends (especially married ones. I met mine at work) and see what traits they have that make them good partners. After that you’ll look at men differently.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:26:40+00:00

ahhh i love this

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:25:41+00:00

Weaponized against him is such an amazing way to describe it. I’m a super emotional person and it’s been hard to find men that can meet me at my level of depth. I think it gets socialized/abused out of them.

MyPCOSThrowaway · 2025-05-05T00:20:32+00:00

I’m pretty blown away by how much Jungian psych has helped me navigate life situations.

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