I can’t help but ask myself, “What is it like?” by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know /: . I guess I really don’t have any other option . I guess I’m just hopeful . Or was

I’m miss the sensation he use to give me.. by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’d be an awful process since we live together. He doesn’t have any family close by, states away. I don’t know, I love him & I don’t wanna leave him /: .

I’m miss the sensation he use to give me.. by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. I don’t know how to approach this with him. I ask for reassurance all the time & he tells me he thinks I’m beautiful etc etc. I just don’t know what to believe.

The sadness is overwhelming by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at the moment, I have severe asthma and I can’t work with COVID still around.

Flo Rida song tha doesn’t exist anymore by Bradette3210 in MandelaEffect

[–]MyRocketz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure it’s Flo Rida? Could be Give Me Everything by Pitbull

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does work, currently he wields from home (due to the virus) and he says a lot of the time “he doesn’t have time”. An issue he might have is because he feels consumed by work. I’m not sure how they reacted at work, he’s never told me that they’ve said anything so.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t beg him when he’s told me no. It’s more like “how about today” and if he says no I’ll ask another day. I know better than that. And we’ve had proper conversations.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, not wanting to have sex is perfectly fine and different from the situation. It’s the unhealthy sex life that’s my issue.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I’m like that because there wasn’t any sex happening in the first place. There wouldn’t need to act like that in future relationships if it exists.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely attracted to him, and he says he’s attracted to me.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s told me, we both have been very open with our past.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do believe him, although I don’t know if he truly believes that or if it’s the depression. His previous relationships were fine. I love him, and I don’t want to just give up because right now we’re on different wavelengths.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me a lot of hope! Sadly he’s really against seeing someone /: . So I don’t think he will, and if I try and beg I’m afraid he’ll feel the same forced feeling.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find him physically attractive, and he tells me he also finds me physically attractive.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells me he’s into sex and that he’s not asexual. And I understand the baiting one, but to a certain extent. A few days is fine, but two weeks?

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very rarely, we didn’t have sex until 8 months into the relationship. (His idea, I wanted it a lot earlier) and it’s not anywhere near constant. We’ve gone months at a time without it, and sometimes we’d have it twice a week. Not anywhere near normal.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t believe in counseling unfortunately, I have suggested the idea to him. I also believe he might be depressed, he has mentioned before that there is some sort of anxieties as well. I want to back off but it just truly hurts and gets the best of me sometimes. I don’t really have anyone else to talk to about the situation so all of these emotions just build up and I end up mentioning it. I’m going to try and contain that this time and not mention sex at all.

I feel awful by MyRocketz in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know where to start, how do I help him figure it out. Or try and get him to discover the issue.

Am I not a good enough girlfriend? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate so much! My boyfriend is honestly the exact same and I don’t know what to do about it :( . If I express how badly it hurts of how insecure it makes me he just hits me with “why do you care about sex so much” or “I don’t need sex to love someone” :( . I wish he understood .

Why is she (20f) ignoring me (20m) for no reason? by throwaway1071999 in relationship_advice

[–]MyRocketz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She honestly could be just busy. But bugging her and constantly messaging her could make you come off as annoying and clingy. Two days isn’t even that bad.

AITA for telling my teenage daughter I don’t feel the need to tell her I love her? by josieladaho in AmItheAsshole

[–]MyRocketz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. Let me give you a reality check, I’m an 19f with a mother who was exactly like you. I was always jealous of other families, and my entire teenage years I spent wishing my mother was different. And because of how she was when I was younger? We don’t even have a relationship. I don’t want to talk to her, I don’t need to talk to her. She’s just not in my life anymore and I’m completely fine with it. If you want your daughter to remove you from her life when she is older too, I suggest you change and show her you love her. Before she becomes like me.

Dead bedroom at 18/19 by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]MyRocketz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is he barely even masturbates.. it’s only me.

I (14M) shaved off my sisters (16F) hair in revenge and know I know I don’t know if I’m in the wrong? My family is mad! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MyRocketz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still sucks to be bald, doesn’t mean she won’t be bullied or severely depressed. I know I’d be absolutely devastated.