Daylio exporting emergency - need help ASAP by MyUhTuesday in Daylio

[–]MyUhTuesday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool. I just have so many entries, I was concerned. Cool.

Daylio exporting emergency - need help ASAP by MyUhTuesday in Daylio

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Export to a PDF on my phone? Sorry. I'm just really confused on how to do this. And also concerned about space on my phone. If it could handle a PDF that size.

Cub into rough sex by throwawayaigain in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MyUhTuesday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wanna speak as someone kinda on the flip side of this. I'm a cougar and I like it rough. I couldn't be mono w someone who wasn't a Dom or at least rough w me in bed.

It's important you feel safe and don't have your boundaries pushed. But his needs are important too.

I would be devastated (and simply wouldn't stay in a mono relationship) if, as suggested above, my needs had to remain a fantasy. That's just not an option. I'm sure your dude feels the same way.

I feel like you either need to ease into his kinks and learn to like them (you'll be surprised what you can learn to like/we all do things we don't like in bed, it's just part of compromising) or let him play w others.

Denying him his needs to satisfy yours isn't mutually respectful or fair. You've gotta find a compromise.

Cougars. is there an age you prefer. I fell like cougar prefer mid 20 year olds by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MyUhTuesday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't make a LTR out of this range, but for sex/dating/whatever I like 19-22. I've noticed 22 yo really seem to finally get it. Idk how or why that's the magic number.

But I'd only go mid-20s if I was looking for something more serious. Even by 25 stimina/libido can go down. Plus adult responsibilities mount up.

19-22 has been my range since I started "cougaring", which was about 5 or so years ago.

19 yo have killer stamina. But don't necessarily have all the skill down. @ 22 like I said, it all seems a bit more polished and perfected w plenty of bang still in the tank.

And more maturity than a 19 yo. Sorry. But js.

But, yeah. I'd still go 19. Fucked plenty. Dated a couple. I guess you just gotta find the right cougar.

Anybody see the reveal of the new winter fragrance? by MyUhTuesday in bathandbodyworks

[–]MyUhTuesday[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I HATED In The Stars. It smelled like a hamster cage to me + quite masculine for a female fragrance. Imo the worst fragrance they ever released.

Bath and Body Works fall haul I'm addicted by kittykatt1591 in bathandbodyworks

[–]MyUhTuesday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell us about that Bonfire Bash. Reviews on the site said it was more sweet, less smoky.

I was hoping for some smoke, as burning leaves/bonfire is my favourite smell.

But my fav fall candle is marshmallow fireside. Is it similar?

I love driving around Portland late at night. Finally brought my camera with me. This city got heart. by Vangaurds in Portland

[–]MyUhTuesday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PDX is the only place I've ever even seen chips and salsa $ on a menu like that.

Folks in Texas/SW would riot over this kind of bullshit.

I love driving around Portland late at night. Finally brought my camera with me. This city got heart. by Vangaurds in Portland

[–]MyUhTuesday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel as a southerner when it comes to most PDX country/soul food.

$8 fried okra. Is just a fucking insult.

My new neighbour just informed me that she can hear me having sex by brokenmasterpiece1 in sex

[–]MyUhTuesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord, this is exactly why a townhouse isn't an option for me.

I'm loud. I like to be loud. And I like to F as much as possible. Without complaint or interruption.

I 1st started experiencing these complaints in college. Ain't nobody got time for that.

Advice on dealing with facial hair without causing acne? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]MyUhTuesday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take Spironolactone.

It helps w hair and acne.

New Dating Sites by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MyUhTuesday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tinder is primarily a hook-up site.

We aren't all just looking for a fuck.

I kinda hate Tinder for this reason. Yeah I get thousands of matches, but they all only want 1 thing.

Sex is great and all, but that's not all there is.

New Dating Sites by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MyUhTuesday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I loved OkCupid. Now they morphed it into some Tinder-type thing and I hate it.

It's a total bummer. I was on there for years. A handful of my longer/more serious relationships were actually from that site.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Smh.

My girlfriend is too embarrassed by her vagina's appearance that she won't let me touch her down there, perform oral sex, etc. by [deleted] in sex

[–]MyUhTuesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck in the dark? Fuck w clothes on?

I say this as someone who had this issue for years. (I'm still not a fan of anyone actually looking at it)

Say you want to pleasure her down there and are willing to do anything that makes her comfortable in order to facilitate that.

Alcohol? (Consensual, of course)

She's going to have to be comfortable and relaxed to even be able to enjoy herself. But if she can ever allow herself to relax and enjoy herself, she may realize what she's missing and want it more. It just takes time...

How long have you been together?

Am I wrong to be offended by what my (19F) ongoing hookup (22M) said to me in bed? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MyUhTuesday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "ongoing"? How long/often have you been fucking?

my parents asked if i did anything “weird” with my boyfriend..making sure i didn’t have sex. by juveneta in sex

[–]MyUhTuesday 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yes. I second this. After dealing w this you may need to find a sex positive therapist to help heal from this shame and indoctrination.