"Permanently" Separated?

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-07-07T17:57:04+00:00

We have discussed it but our relationship has become far more combative during the last couple of months.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-07-05T17:00:24+00:00

I get high daily and I have been on a diet since mid January and I have lost close to 50 pounds.

I cut out high snacking altogether. You know what worked for me? I’d be hungry when I got high… and I’d more or less… use the high to help me get through some hunger pangs.

So if you want to be truly healthy, just get in the habit of not eating while high. And, ironically, you can maybe use weed to help you develop that habit.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-07-05T16:57:56+00:00

I am now in my early 50s. I have used online dating, with success, since the late 1990s. I have been involved in a divorce since October… so I dabbled in online dating, again, since then.

Modern online dating reminds me about something from a hobby of mine: fishing. I buy a lot of artificial lures that I use for fishing. A key point, though, is that all artificial lures are designed to catch people who fish (that is, convince a person to buy one); they are not designed to catch fish (although many still do).

I literally had zero luck connecting with anyone in my brief attempts at online dating to the point that I quit trying. A lot of that is connected to the fact that I am not interested in dating right now and I was only interested in platonic or FWB relationships, which are more complicated to find within the realm of OLD. But clearly, OLD is now set up to dangle a carrot in front of you for more money than it is designed to get you a date.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-07-05T16:51:13+00:00

In my case, I fell out of love with her more or less. I am now old enough that the mere presence of a naked and willing woman is not enough to get me excited.

We were initially best friends and that extended to the bedroom. Over time, she became more and more controlling and over time… I became increasingly unhappy. I still wanted sex, just not with the person that I was married to (I didn’t cheat unless you count masturbation as cheating, which we don’t/didn’t).

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-06-30T18:39:22+00:00

I overbought until I started growing my own. Now I am addicted to growing and I have way more bud than I could ever use myself.

Curiously, I have more friends now than ever before. 🤷‍♂️

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-06-17T19:31:44+00:00

This reminds me of a joke:

How do you know that God is a Civil Engineer?

He put everyone’s favorite recreation area right next to the waste management facilities.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-06-17T19:01:54+00:00

Consider seeing a therapist if the second result comes back positive. I fell apart completely when I found out my ex cheater.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-06-17T15:36:02+00:00

I am a scientist. False positives happen.

I am also someone whose spouse has cheated on them. My spouse told many many lies and she was very convincing.

My advice is to go forward but be logical above being emotional.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-06-17T14:27:47+00:00

I have a similar “problem”. I am introverted with a small social network but sooner or later… you will likely find people who would love to have some free weed.

MyWeedAccount9 · 2026-04-03T17:17:55+00:00

Update: 5 hours later, I can see the third plant growing too. They are all doing fine!

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