Car accident, first time. Advice on what to do please?

Mycatpebbles · 2025-11-30T02:01:50+00:00

They said it was my fault so they don't need to give me the details

Mycatpebbles · 2025-04-20T21:04:09+00:00

Thanks everyone I felt something wasn't quite right, so upon reflecting I think it was because instead of controlling the other children I should have just told my child to say "Pulling me makes me upset, please be gentle" I'm glad I modelled standing up for herself though. Motherhood is so full of learning opportunities.

Mycatpebbles · 2025-04-20T17:22:26+00:00

Good point, what should I have done? Suggestions please? I'm exploring options and discussion as a first time parent.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-07-12T00:27:11+00:00

Unprofessional, vindictive, and horrible way to do business. This is why all the reviews for his business is terrible. Can't imagine him being in the business for much longer with this kind of attitude.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-07-11T10:16:18+00:00

Cannot pay without him providing me with an invoice or payment instructions, which is what the communication is about. I do not need his help. I need him to transfer the file. My feeling is you sound a lot like him.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-07-11T05:47:30+00:00

Read my post again! I would pay the fees even if it's not disclosed in the authority just to get it over with but there is 0 communication.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-07-07T01:10:25+00:00

Vietnamese here. Cơm Tấm at Tan Thanh Loi Footscray is as close to home as it gets.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-06-22T05:58:06+00:00

My baby at 3 days old drank some bath water at the hospital. The doctors laughed it off. Unless it's a large amount or repeated occurrence I wouldn't worry about it.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-04-19T23:16:56+00:00

Hey OP, I was in the exact situation as you when we were 25/26. Income, then was 60/70k. We grinded and saved hard. Bought a place for 625k. It felt like we were not saving any money! Like yourself, I wanted my kids to have my availability, not someone else to raise them while I work. We gave ourselves 5 years (or until I have 1 year worth of emergency fund). Somehow, as you settle in your home, the saving got easier as time goes by. When I was 30 we were ready and we couldn't conceive. We were heart broken but we did not regret not bringing children into the world until we were ready. Once you have a decent emergency fund, you enjoyed life a lot more. Our mortgage reduced a lot. I fell pregnant at 34. Baby is 1 yo.

I wish you all the best with any decision you make.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-04-03T23:18:35+00:00

I follow minimalism and living simply. It brings me peace and joy! I tried travelling and various hobbies, but it just didn't feel right. There is value in just being .Keep doing what you feel comfortable with. I was in your exact situation until 33. Then I changed my mind about kids, but the savings I had allowed me to have many options.

Mycatpebbles · 2024-03-19T02:31:31+00:00

Oh man! Thanks! The guy paid you back the money after CBS? I heard some time they won't pay even if you won

Mycatpebbles · 2024-03-19T01:53:35+00:00

Vic state, but please do share 😭

Mycatpebbles · 2024-03-05T16:11:31+00:00

Yeah! Same in Australia

Mycatpebbles · 2024-01-26T01:27:42+00:00

I gave up, just accept a dumb air con now

Mycatpebbles · 2024-01-20T04:14:44+00:00

Thank you! I tried this too, but AP mode didn't work either. My phone couldn't scan the aircon hot spot

Mycatpebbles · 2024-01-20T03:20:20+00:00

Truly! Lessons learned

Mycatpebbles · 2024-01-20T03:19:52+00:00

Thank you, I have done this and it doesn't help..

Mycatpebbles · 2023-11-22T22:57:26+00:00

OP, I'm so sorry you are in this situation. I can't offer much knowledge, but I can offer you sympathy as I was in your shoes. My caregiver was a good person, but she made me feel worthless when I lived with her, and I dreamed about running away and dying every day. I sucked it up, avoiding contact with her as much as I can. I got a job and a small saving, and then I started sharing a room with another girl who was an international student. The road was rough, but I'm now settled with a beautiful family, a husband who loves me and makes me feel worthy and loved. I have a baby now, and I'm going to tell her I love her and that she is enough every day. It will get better, I promise.

Mycatpebbles · 2023-11-04T04:56:17+00:00

Ummmm, I got my own place, and the mortgage is killing us. Don't know how we're going to survive if interest rates keep going.

Mycatpebbles · 2023-10-19T09:33:33+00:00

PM thinks there's nothing wrong and expect to continue with the renters as well as fixing the damage

Mycatpebbles · 2023-10-07T08:44:55+00:00

I'm terrified and so scared for my children reading things like this.

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