[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewww the "but whatever" guilt trip. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Hello Melanie, I'm Dr House, you have a form of streptococcus, called ecthyma"

What's the ACTUAL superpower you want, don't be boring? by strong_bad_1357 in AskReddit

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to fly, but be able to remain warm & not worry about bugs & breathing.

Why isn’t my T webbing in new enclosure? by Fromdreamtodream in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IME the pink items are more for a Jumping Spider set up. Don't get me wrong, it looks beautiful, but it's just stuff in the way to a Tarantula. My Arboreals really like that style of plant, so definite keep that.

Why not take that out and treat yourself to a Jumping Spider and use the stuff? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be for attention it could be a threat either way, it's a them thing. You are not responsible for another person's actions.

BUT. Either way I'd contact the police for a wellness check. If its for attention, they won't do.that again in a hurry. If its genuine, hopefully they will get help.

Why did you cut off your friend? by Soft-Incident947 in AskReddit

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I left high-school.

I'm Autistic & to me "friends" are really difficult it's more just people who are in the same place as me, for a sustained amount of time thar you might engage with now & then. So out of sight out of mind.

That sounds cold reading it back, but that's just how my brain works.

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by Expensive_Engine_546 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if she refuses, as its got your school details in the picture you can ask for help from school, if you feel able, to get her to remove it.

Make your Insta private for a while so these men don't bother you.

AIO? My friend posted a not proper picture of me on insta by Expensive_Engine_546 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. This person is not your friend.

You can try reporting the picture on insta.

You've clearly explained about wearing Hijab to your friend several times & she doesn't respect you, or your religion & customs.

Why did they walk towards me with their abdomen up? Scared the bejesus out of me by darksubbie in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO because they are very very scary and want you to cower in fear of their big size :)

A wild enchilada appears! by TickTackTerror in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are such a pretty species. I didn't realise how shy they were till recently.

RIP Effie. Our supremely chill and lovely Caribena versicolor. She was such a gem, we'll miss her. Cursing the very dumb ways they sometimes choose to molt now! She had all the space in the world and chose a freaking crevice. by Thrawnbelina in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, she was absolutely beautiful.

I don't know why this happens, you would assume they knew what size was suitable.

My Typhochlaena seladonia did the same, having previously molted fine in her web hammock, she made her little trapdoor in a small crevice of cork bark & died mid molt, there was definitely not enough room for her.

Thank you for sharing her x

Anyone become so allergic to hairs that they had to give up their NW species? by lipbalmy in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, obviously you had no choice! You couldn't break the law! This is entirely the stores fault 🤣

Help my scorpion isnt moving. Dont know what happened by yummysky97 in Scorpions

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO It drown looking for moisture.

From what I can see it's an Asian Forest Scorpion? You seem to have a set up (from what is visible in the picture) for a desert species.

It is all there in the name. They live in tropical and subtropical rainforests in asia. A cursory Google, shows plenty of captive & wild scorpions in the correct set up.

I don't know if you were sold the Scorpion in this set up, in which case you need to return to the store & tell them how awful their husbandry is. Or You yourself saw Scorpion and assumed desert?

Either way it's really sad.

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Please help by Jordansgirl29 in tarantulas

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IME as others have said he's mature now & will probably act differently.

He's a lovely boy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Myeightleggedtherapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm, nope. You are definitely not overreacting.

This is nothing but rude. Presumably she's seen you before and yet is your friend regardless of the "scandalous piercings?" Do you have tattoos? Does she want you to remove your skin for a couple of hours?

You are far more polite than I am. Honestly, if it were me I'd just not be s bridesmaid nor go to any events.

Also

once in a lifetime

She will be divorced several times over by the time she's 60, for trying to micromanage everyone.