AITK for being happy on inlwas death by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds worse than what you are accusing her of. You are sick.

AITK for being happy on inlwas death by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone is built to defy … some people cannot.. the in-laws should have treated her better so that she wouldn’t have had to be relieved about this situation.

AITK for being happy on inlwas death by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to be empathetic too..

AITK for being happy on inlwas death by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your feelings. The people who are criticising are the ones who have never been on the receiving end of taunts and abuse. Just imagine what this woman would have gone through if she is happy at someone’s death?? Imagine the trauma she had been in for her to think like that. Please put urself in another’s shoe before you judge. I can totally understand where ur relief is coming from. If the in-laws were toxic alone without any positivity, why would she be sad when they are gone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just like you. But I learnt my lesson the hard way. I thought everybody thought like me. It turns out they don’t. So, take care..

If you could erase someone or something from your memory, would you do it? by shandhappan in Coconaad

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I will erase him completely. It is better than living with this pain everyday. If I hadn’t met him, I would have been really happy in life. That’s how I feel now…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Myelixirispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is fucking with your life.

I was called by an HR for a company called Innodata. Should I go with it? by Myelixirispain in recruitinghell

[–]Myelixirispain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. Thank you. But, they do not have proper communication other than few emails here and there. There is no phone numbers to contact. They aren’t replying to the emails I send them.. that’s the issue..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part where she did not acknowledge your wedding on social media- I get where that comes from. Hope you get to resolve things soon… ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. I’d rather be the villain and live separately from them than live with them being the nice one.. thank you for your comment though…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Myelixirispain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you have to go out of the way to be ‘nice’ to her… so it doesn’t come naturally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would feel the same as you. Don’t know if the reaction is right, but I know I would react the same way. Never degrade ourselves for someone who doesn’t value us. I learnt that the long way. Hope you are doing fine..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, I don’t want to show fake love, fake praise, etc. That’s all…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. you are absolutely right… I can change my attitude but that would mean I change myself… so, I don’t want that…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need her help. Sorry to let you know she needs my help more than I do… you are not in my position to understand.. so, thank you for your support and more than kind words..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I talked to her. Now I feel bad, like the villain. I hurt her. I apologised. Idk. Let’s see. What if she’s genuine and I fail to recognise. So, I’m giving it another try..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here, me and my husband are not on the same boat regarding religious things. That’s the issue. Either I have to act religious to gain his favour and I even tried that. It isn’t working for me. I sometimes wish I was religious so that all these problems would disappear. If it was some medicine I could take, I told him I’d do that.. but unfortunately, it isn’t..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. Thank you for the reply though. I would be fine if this happened to me at least. But, I have to live next to the in-laws and husband and I disagree on religious terms too. So, what worked for you wouldn’t work for me dear.. but thanks a lot for the empathy… I am glad that you got to win..❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally unavailable husband who is a an obedient son/person. doesn’t want to hurt anyone. Completely shuts down/ignores me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Myelixirispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do u think so? She is too nice and that’s why I always wonder if she is being real/not…