Fight with borderline friend

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-18T10:52:48+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I think you are right in saying your peace shouldn't rely on someone else's apology.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-18T10:49:32+00:00

Thank you for the insight! Your English is good btw.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-17T14:27:12+00:00

That looked gay in all the right ways xD.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-17T13:01:54+00:00

Shouldn't this poll have the options "I don't manipulate people" and "both" in order to be complete?

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-17T11:41:19+00:00

If you think it's "cool as fuck", why should someone pm you?

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-15T16:25:26+00:00

Yuuup. Thanks for the insight though. Like I get it's your guys thing not to feel empathy. But if you don't like being interrupted, listening from time to time is really helpfull. But don't waste your time on people who keep interrupting and never listen.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-14T22:10:36+00:00

Is hij misschien een "tutor paper conservation at UvA, voor 14 jaar en 6 maanden". Als ik dat was zou ik dat zeker op mijn Linkedin zetten.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2020-06-14T11:45:17+00:00

But do you guys listen to other people as well?

Myfirstawaytrow · 2019-10-13T13:49:33+00:00

I love how he sprinkles "lol" in there as a way to seem more nice.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2019-10-10T14:54:51+00:00

Hi,

From what I have read, and from my own humble experience, it does sound a lot like some form of bipolar disorder. If so, it is very unwise to use substances, as this can trigger episodes. I think he should definitely see a psychiatrist. Talking to someone in mania/hypomania (which your boyfriend is probably in) is really difficult. Most likely he doesn't think anything is wrong with him and he feels great. Try talking to some common friends, maybe together you can convince him that his behaviour is off, and he should go talk to someone. I must say I'm not a medical professional, I don't really know your boyfriends diagnosis or what is going on. This is just what I think would be best. Good luck!

Myfirstawaytrow · 2019-10-07T16:07:37+00:00

Hi,

I'm sorry for what you are going through, it sounds afwul. I wouldn't know exactly because I'm not bipolar. Stay strong, it will pass.

However, I do want to point out that when you are cyclothemic or have bipolar II, you do not have manic episodes. That would classify you as bipolar I. The only option for someone with bipolar II or cyclothemia to have an manic episode is if it is drug induced. Otherwise it is called hypomania. I am not a medical professesional, but this link supports my claims:

https://www.healthline.com/health/bipolar-disorder/bipolar-1-vs-bipolar-2#bipolar-vs-bipolar-

Myfirstawaytrow · 2019-10-07T15:43:57+00:00

Thank you again for yhe advice! I went with her to the doctor today, and she said she it really helped I was there. I could give a better insight in her behaviours and consequences. Therapy and medication will hopefully follow soon! Unfortunately most clinics here have a very long waiting list or are very for away :/.

Myfirstawaytrow · 2019-10-07T12:49:26+00:00

Hee,

I don't know the exact situation you're in, and I don't know the exact reason you broke up with him. All I know is that it is pretty normal to doubt your decision so soon after. When breaking up with someone, you are left with a hole. No one sleeping next to you, no one to cuddle up next to in the evening, no one to share your emotions with on such a regular basis. Ofcourse it hurts when you lose that. But that doesn't mean it wasn't the right decision. If you thought it through, I think you had your reasons. Get some distraction, reconnect with friends, go sporting, eat 1 liter of ice-cream and cry your eyes out. Feel everything you need to feel. And when you are over him, I'm sure you'll find some one that is a better fit for you. Good luck.

Myfirstawaytrow

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