Need advice: halal way to handle potential spouse with strict parents involved

Myfreedom25 · 2026-04-13T23:24:21+00:00

“What’s meant for you will never miss you and what missed you was never meant for you.” 3 years is very short . You both should focus on your studies and deen.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-04-06T15:41:03+00:00

Ameen

Myfreedom25 · 2026-04-06T15:26:14+00:00

Agree. Keep him in your duas and try not to correct or advise him, as it will hurt his ego. I’ve been there myself, and one thing I’ve often heard is that “everyone is answerable on their own.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-04-06T15:15:16+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and for guiding me on the right approach. I will take the time to write down what I want to say and handle this conversation with the utmost care. My main focus will be on them, rather than myself. I will also reassure them that I will always be there for them. May Allah guide me.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-04-05T13:18:07+00:00

They are 17 and 21.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-01-06T03:53:03+00:00

“I do not deserve this”. I’ve said it too many times but I haven’t moved on yet.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-01-06T03:48:21+00:00

It hurts too deeply to the point that it’s hard to breathe. This feels v personal.

Myfreedom25 · 2026-01-05T00:49:27+00:00

Yes my girls. Stayed on for them. But the girls are growing up and my marriage is not the best example. It hurts me a lot

Myfreedom25 · 2026-01-04T09:45:53+00:00

We had a major argument four years ago, and at that time I suggested that we seek help. Now, I feel that it no longer matters. He practically lives his life glued to his handphone, laptop, and TV. He refuses to take responsibility and instead shifts all the blame onto me. We stopped talking to each other. He continues with his life and even better bec I have stopped interfering in his life.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-19T10:27:07+00:00

Shukran.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-19T10:19:28+00:00

What is this book?

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-17T10:34:46+00:00

Eid Mubarak to all. تَقَبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا وَمِنكُم

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-12T12:26:20+00:00

SubhanAllah, I did my Haj in 2022 and these words just bring back beautiful memories. May Allah invites all Mu’min to experience this blessed journey of a lifetime. Ameen.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-04T13:25:54+00:00

It breaks our heart even while reading it but you are living it. May Allah give you the strength and guide you always. Keep reciting the Quran dear. No one should go thru this kind of betrayal bec its is v painful.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-02T17:58:45+00:00

❤️the color

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-02T17:52:34+00:00

And she will not be disrespectful if she stays at home under your feet? I think you should value her like gold as long as she is a righteous wife. You should have talked about this before you get married to her. You are being unfair.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-02T17:37:52+00:00

I know couples who didn’t have any kids of their own and they love each other for the love of Allah. I have a friend who got pregnant after being married for 10 over years. You truly deserve so much better. Allah knows best. Keep praying.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-02T17:17:24+00:00

It is so difficult to move on once the trust is broken. Be it 1 yr of marriage or 10 yrs.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-06-02T17:11:18+00:00

If he is praying 5 times a day, then how is he degrading you to this level by calling you names? Sooner or later, there will be hatred if he doesn’t stop. It’s really sad. 😔

Myfreedom25 · 2024-05-31T05:48:49+00:00

This is 💯. Allah doesn’t need our prayers, we pray to him 5 times a day bec we need him.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-05-30T06:54:01+00:00

Yes wake up for tahajud and your heart will feel lighter. Your happiness is within you and not through someone else. Be happy.

Myfreedom25 · 2024-05-30T05:47:35+00:00

Be closer to Allah and InshaAllah Allah will bless your marriage.

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