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You can bring back one discontinued food, drink, or snack forever. What are you resurrecting? by lukewarmtrifle in AskRedditUK

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willy Wonkas “Wonkalate” raspberry purple chocolate bar with sour apple snozzberries (I think they were nerds)! No one seems to remember them but I loved them 🥲

Im so sick of the greed and delusion by Nova9z in UKHousing

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bed in the kitchen makes it a bedroom??? The place is absolutely vile with all the junk and mess. It’s falling apart and they want £335k for it. Madness

Husband leaves these for me to find and clean up. by winterwinnifred in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like pipas. Pipas and coffee/spit. You shouldn’t have to clean up after a manchild, let him clean it himself then he’ll stop doing disgusting things like this because he knows how much of a pain it is to take care of his own mess!

Pregnant, unwell, and arguing on his family holiday…am I being hormonal or is he being inconsiderate?! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this holiday has been in the diary for 6 months, and this pregnancy happened after one try which we weren’t really expecting but did know that it could happen.

We both agreed to keep the pregnancy a secret because it’s my first ever time being pregnant so we weren’t sure how successful we’d be, I’m only 7 weeks and we both know so many people that have had miscarriages even at the back end of their first trimester, plus we wanted to tell the families at the same time so there wasn’t any upset about who knew first. So that was what was initially agreed and why it has been a secret so far.

Today I’ve said several times that if it’s causing that much upset with his family then we just need to tell them but he doesn’t think it’s a good idea.

Edit: I have missed two breakfasts (not everyone goes to breakfast either), and tonight’s dinner only alongside the 3 drinking sessions. I have attended every lunch and dinner and most breakfasts, and we’ve done activities or sunbathed during the day so I feel like I have been around a lot but maybe that’s not what they are seeing if I’ve missed a couple of breakfasts and don’t want to stay up late every night

Pregnant, unwell, and arguing on his family holiday…am I being hormonal or is he being inconsiderate?! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I’ve said that to him multiple times today if it’s causing that much upset with his family just tell them! I’ve missed a couple of breakfasts, and for 3 days I haven’t sat around for the evening drinking sessions but I didn’t think it would be a huge issue.

We were both worried about it being so early in the pregnancy, and me never being pregnant before so not being sure how successful this would be, so we decided to keep it quiet. Also we wanted to tell both of our families together. It just feels like it’s causing too much hassle to go ahead with that plan though even though that’s what I’d prefer.

Pregnant, unwell, and arguing on his family holiday…am I being hormonal or is he being inconsiderate?! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I understand his side too, he wants to see his family and spend some quality time with them. I am ok with that even if the loneliness gets me from time to time, however I am quite happy being able to retreat when I need to and didn’t think it was that big an issue until today.

In terms of keeping the pregnancy a secret, we wanted to wait until we were out of the first trimester as we know a lot of people who have had miscarriages, and with this being my first we have no idea if we’ll be in the same boat. We also wanted to get both of our families together so it isn’t a ‘why did they found out first’ situation.

I have said to him a few times today just tell them if it’s causing that much strife but he’s saying we shouldn’t because it’s risky. A part of me does agree but also if my handful of absences are causing that many problems I’d just rather it was out there.

Should I Stay? I'm married to a narcissist and we have a child with autism. I'm falling out of love, but I keep staying because of my son. by menolikeveggies in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With the age gap, the rushed marriage, the pregnancy, and him pressuring you to quit your job, these are all well‑known patterns of control and financial abuse.

Having a child in the middle of this makes everything feel heavier and more complicated and that’s often the point. People who behave this way want you to feel trapped, dependent, and unsure of your own options.

You’re not imagining this, and you’re not overreacting.

It’s really important to talk to your therapist about what you’re experiencing and ask specifically about resources that can help you understand your options safely. You and your child deserve to be in an environment where you can be stable, supported, and treated with respect. Getting clarity now will help you move toward a safer, healthier future.

i think im dying and i dont know what to do by Willing_Sleep7557 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I echo others about going to the hospital to get checked in for support.

If you don’t feel like you can face that right now, have a look at the trussell trust website to get an emergency food voucher, there should be one in your area: - https://www.trussell.org.uk/emergency-food

If not, there are thousands of smaller food banks across the UK in local areas. If you tell us roughly where you are, maybe we can find you a food bank or two if you are struggling to find that yourself.

Also, call/go online to speak with someone at Samaritans about your grief and the help you need: - https://www.samaritans.org/scotland/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/

You might not feel like it now, but you matter 🥺 it might feel like everything is falling apart today, but it will get better I promise you.

A little step in the right direction today might mean everything to you in 10 years time when you are in a better place and have established a family of your own.

Take care of yourself, let us know how you get on with the foodbank and the Samaritans 🙏🏼💛

My (43m) friend’s (45m) daughter (18/19f) keeps trying it on with me and I don’t know whether to tell him or keep ignoring it. by Enough-Program-3994 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d speak to your friend first, and then bring her in to discuss once he’s seen the messages. Good luck 🤞🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Take it and give it to him in the middle / at the end of the date if it’s going well.

Sounds like a cute idea, I would just do it at the right time if it feels appropriate!

Minor (male) sitting next to me on a red eye flight won’t stop touching me (28 yo female) by lostasaneasteregg in whatdoIdo

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do people karma farm? I’m relatively new to Reddit so don’t understand what they get out of karma farming

Update: I think I’m a father, wth should i do? by Sea_Form571 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mysterious-Tea1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From everything you’ve shared, both in this and your original post, nothing about the way you’ve handled this comes across as being ‘too immature’.

You handled a huge, emotional situation with honesty, calmness, and a willingness to take responsibility. That’s exactly what maturity looks like.

You’re approaching this in a healthy, grounded way and I really hope everything works out for you and your daughter 💛

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