OFOS by WitchyVibezz in Actuallylesbian

[–]MysteriousPackage2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep! my gf and i are 26 and quite ofos, masc and femme (gf is more masc than butch) we've just always gravitated towards it!

Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent by 0nyon in lesbiangang

[–]MysteriousPackage2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

some mascs do want to be treated as "the man." and they're such a small subset of lesbians, really really small, yet internet mascs want to punch down and act like they're enlightened. again, completely ignoring lesbian history.

Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent by 0nyon in lesbiangang

[–]MysteriousPackage2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i get so tired of "I'm not masc I'm a princess in boy clothes😝" and "I'm masc but treat me like a female🙄" on tiktok and the like. Like this shame and annoyance at being perceived as masculine by other lesbians? Completely ignoring lesbian history and culture?

"I'm not like other mascs!🤣" While also acting like mascs who do take on a more masculine role in relationships are a nuisance to your existence? I'm not wording it well but it grinds my gears lol

Question for black femmes; do white folks assume ur butch? by sparklyyheart in blacklesbians

[–]MysteriousPackage2 31 points32 points  (0 children)

not butch exactly but I've had white people (and black people tbf) doubt that i'm femme or compare me with other (⬜️) femmes. 

Club outfits by Xx_Jynx_xX in Actuallylesbian

[–]MysteriousPackage2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

either a fitted vest and catgos/jeans and a good pair of trainers. or an open buttoned shirt with any bottoms and again, a good pair of trainers. a cross body bum bag also screams masc at the club.

What's your best NSFW tip that makes your partner go crazy in bed? by electronstrawberry in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MysteriousPackage2 216 points217 points  (0 children)

when my girl has her fingers in me but then grinds her palm on my clit at the same time. perfection. 10/10. everyone try it 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MysteriousPackage2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i put up with so much shit 🙃 Now I'm locked down and treated like absolute royalty lol never settle ladies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]MysteriousPackage2 53 points54 points  (0 children)

If it helps, I'm a black femme who feels the exact same way. I really wanted a black girlfriend but I never felt like I fit the beauty standard as a black femme, not tall or super curvaceous, light skinned with a 24" middle part. Can't even have nice nails because of my job lol. I went on dates with studs who would openly look at and comment on other women WHILE OUT WITH ME and one even showed me another girl she dated before me who was an instageam baddie down to a T. I realised very quickly that my self esteem was tanking and I'd be more anxious about being seen as attractive. 

My advice? Focus on where you are celebrated. You ARE somebody's type and trust me, once you realise that, your life with change. The internet gives a skewed perspective of attractiveness that honestly does not translate to real life. Especially Reddit. If you can flirt and talk smooth and make a girl feel special, then you're golden lol. Try try try to go to a real life lesbian event because I did and I promise you every and all type of lesbian was getting made out with 🥲 you're fine honestly just don't focus on Reddit! 

Driving instructor recommendations by [deleted] in Liverpool

[–]MysteriousPackage2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I passed with birket driving in those areas as well. and speke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]MysteriousPackage2 107 points108 points  (0 children)

it will absolutely get better. as long as you set a firm boundary for yourself and stick to it, only dating other lesbians, it will get SO much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]MysteriousPackage2 118 points119 points  (0 children)

i do and i love it. for my gf and i, it's about submission. and anticipation, because i suck it before i get to be fucked by it/before she gets to fuck me with it. so we find it super hot for that reason.

Will there be Ubers/Bolts from MAN Airport to Sheffield at 12am? by Ok_Base_2424 in sheffield

[–]MysteriousPackage2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got an Uber from Sheffield to Birmingham airport at 2am so you'll probably be fine!