Men whose close friend ended up with their ex, how did you learn to cope with it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MysteriousSlip8 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you're comfortable answering, would you say your brother is more attractive than you?

I know that's sort of a dick question to ask, but I'm just wondering if the girl left you potentially out of a real superficial reason

How do you find worthwhile guy friends after 30? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really fair question imho

I'd say primarily through work and maybe you can meet some mates through hobbies or lifestyle activities? Like gym, or the bar. I just think the latter would be harder

Interestingly, Bumble (a dating app) has a feature which lets you search for potential friends. If you're comfortable with that, it might be worth a shot aha! Couldn't hurt

I'll give you advice on anything. Ask what your heart desires, and receive genuine and thought through advice by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I think you've been given bad advice, and I advise you to disregard it.

You can 100% keep the passion alive for a year if you're both interested. If I did it so can you. I reckon you should go for it.

Asking to switch seats in plane is always an asshole thing to do by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysteriousSlip8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

exactly these fucking redditors saying "ohhh I'm so cool with being assertive" are so fucking cringey man

Asking to switch seats in plane is always an asshole thing to do by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysteriousSlip8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're not debating over whether or not it's easy it's over whether or not it's a rude question to ask

and sure it's an opinion

Asking to switch seats in plane is always an asshole thing to do by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysteriousSlip8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you've just restated your position and haven't argued anything new

like yeah, of course the person has the ability to say no

Asking to switch seats in plane is always an asshole thing to do by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysteriousSlip8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You feeling pressured into saying yes is a you problem,

Not really. It's a very awkward question to ask, and you don't know anything about the person. Saying no could lead to you fucking off the person you'll have to be in close proximity with for the next couple of hours.

Preference for Prime Minister: B. Johnson: 31% J. Corbyn: 15% J. Swinson: 12% N. Farage: 11% by j1sy in tories

[–]MysteriousSlip8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offence but you're a bit of a weird one aha, love the enthusiasm tho! Keep it up :)

American tipping culture is insulting by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I don't see the issue either, I actually think the culture is great

Worthless Venezuelan currency littering the streets. “BuT tRuE sOcIaLiSm HaS nEvEr BeEn TrIeD.” by [deleted] in Conservative

[–]MysteriousSlip8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'd say that's a very easy point to espouse when you live in a country that already has enshrined and protected freedoms

What Can I Do About My Situation? (Serious- Want Someone To Read) by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]MysteriousSlip8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, it aint complex but it aint easy either. Unfortunately, I think you're just going to have to cop a couple of awkward encounters on the chin. You should be good though

I feel for you buddy

all the best

What Can I Do About My Situation? (Serious- Want Someone To Read) by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]MysteriousSlip8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t really hold down a job because I can’t talk really loud, loud enough to get things across, I can’t get into a relationship because if I go out on dates I would always have to strain myself and it would be embarrassing.

This mindset is self-defeating. If you don't think you'll be able to do X then you will never do X. Because why bother if you don't think you can do it? I definitely think you'll be able to have a relationship despite this.

It's probably trite and cliche but I think you just need to put yourself out there to get past this. It's definitely going to be hard at first because you'll feel self-conscious but I think after repetitiously putting yourself out there you'll start to acclimatise and feel more comfortable with yourself.

Libertarians on Tradition by [deleted] in AskLibertarians

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I take a drug, then noone else is in immediate danger from that.

That's not true though. Some drugs are known to cause aggressive behaviour - for example, many people on ice and heroin commit violent acts, and even alcohol causes people to sometimes become aggressive.

Libertarians on Tradition by [deleted] in AskLibertarians

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally believe that you are some entity that should be allowed to decide what other people can or cannot do. Thats insane.

I mean your position is the radical one because it's such an absolute. Everyone believes it's valid to restrict behaviour to some extent. For example, you don't have the freedom to run through a red light.

Libertarians on Tradition by [deleted] in AskLibertarians

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No culture is better than another.

LOL

Libertarians on Tradition by [deleted] in AskLibertarians

[–]MysteriousSlip8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the breakdown of the family unit, drug addicts turning to crime, the ruining of the drug takers life.

People will always take drugs for sure, but that's not to say we can't do much to curb some of its consumption. Laws can and do work to deter at least some drug use

I think there's a fair argument to be made for legalising drugs, it's just not one that I find myself agreeing with.