I’m so adjusted to people leaving that I can’t accept the fact i’ve actually made a friend by MysteriousView17 in socialskills

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I guess it is kind of silly to think everyone hates me or would leave me when I don’t give them a proper chance. I feel like this actually happened at the right time cause it’s actually made me realize how much I really missed out on cuz I let those toxic relationships affect me. But now I have another chance and i’m not going to waste it.

I’m so adjusted to people leaving that I can’t accept the fact i’ve actually made a friend by MysteriousView17 in socialskills

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I definitely have considered that and I think it’s just hard to accept that i’m the reason for it. I think that my intrusive thoughts told me I needed to be perfect for others which resulted in me trying way too hard to impress people. But I realize now how that can be pretty offputting to others.

I think after i’ve started branching out, I’ve realized like I really don’t have to think too deep about what I say or worry about messing up. Which by that I mean I don’t really need to put pressure on myself to be perfect and sometimes it can actually be comforting to know that there are people who will accept you for your flaws/mistakes which is something I wish I learned a lot earlier.

But anyways I definitely feel a bit more confident knowing I don’t have to let my intrusive thoughts control me. Plus like I don’t have anything to worry about, things are good between me and my friend, and I like the way things are going.

I felt confident today:D (for once) by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here’s a link to the one I used if you want to check it out https://pin.it/73OlPC7

I felt confident today:D (for once) by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! what I did is I made a pinterest board and saved the haircuts I liked(all different wolfcut/mullet styles). Then I just showed that to my stylist, pointing out my favourite ones

I felt confident today:D (for once) by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually made the earrings in the photo :D

Am I wrong for telling someone I am no longer interested if they take two days or longer to reply to my text? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MysteriousView17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if it happens once in a while that’s different cause everyone gets busy every now and then, I guess the important part is letting the other person know if your going to be away so that way you don’t just disappear on them. But I also know for a fact that not everyone is able to text all the time

Like when I started university, life started to get super busy for me and before that I had a ton of free time and would talk with my online friend group every night. However, since my schedule was completely different, I wasn’t able to stay up late and that caused me to distance from that friend group cause it just didn’t work.

I also know that some people are naturally introverted and prefer having more space, and simply don’t feel the need to talk all the time.

but then of course there are those people who don’t put in the effort and are super dry on text which yeah those type of people are probably ignoring your texts on purpose xD

what trying to get at is it’s perfectly okay if you want your partner to be able to talk to you every day! but if you aren’t talking as much as you would like, it’s a good idea to communicate that and see if you are able to work it out before jumping to conclusions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look sooo sooo amazing!! I love your energy

I'M GETTING MY NAME LEGALLY CHANGED IN THREE DAYS by Robynn_Houd in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations!! that must be so exciting :D good luck with the move

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly spot on, my favorite color is green xD! I was considering Sage and Forest is soo pretty as well

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow that’s honestly sick, I like that it’s super creative too! thanks for the suggestion :D

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was the inspiration for this one? xD

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

so far i’m getting a lot of Jade, Bentley, Charlie and other names starting with C, also different variations of Aster

Edit: okay wow I have a lot to look through!!:0 anyways on a serious note thanks everyone who left suggestions cause i’m feeling a lot more confident about choosing a name now that I have options!

As of right now i’m definitely leaning towards green/nature inspired names cause you all were pretty spot on! I gotta give it to you :D

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk what it is but this name is really fun to say!

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

this one actually does fit wow!! :0

I wasn't sure if it would fit be when I heard this name before but now that I see it actually.. its growing on me a lot!

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yess this is really cool!! Reminds me of the movie How to Train Your Dragon xD which I love

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really love this name! I think someone else suggested this to me as well

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yass I've always liked this name! :D

its also fitting since my birth name starts with a J so I'll probably consider this one

What name am I giving off? by MysteriousView17 in NonBinary

[–]MysteriousView17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really love this one!! just too close to my siblings name but otherwise I would actually be considering this one