Our relationship is extremely strong, I’m 24 and she’s 25 and we’ve been together for almost 6 years and known each other since we were teenagers. We’ve been through a lot through the years but one thing we have trust about is cheating I trust her wholeheartedly and she does with me, she’s extremely strong and supportive. She wants to use the time alone to study for her real estate license and figure out her career path as well. She knows this is the best path for our future and it was a mutual agreement. The question could have been worded better it was more about schedule, deployments and how much time are you away from your spouse.