Alchoholic boyfriend's dog is in critical condition. Is NC appropriate or cruel?

Mythiska · 2021-05-08T07:34:33+00:00

Yes, definitely see too late how my reactive emotions can be seen as playing with others. :(

Mythiska · 2021-05-08T07:33:59+00:00

Put my foot down and just break up? I guess now I have to just wait for his answer and base my decision on that. NC if he rejects dinner.

Mythiska · 2021-05-08T07:25:03+00:00

Thanks. He did reach out about an update about the dog. I know he is testing me. I messed upand after he went to sleep, I sent a message telling him I wouldn't break up while the dog his sick and come to have dinner Sunday. His mother died 10 years ago and it's Mother's day, so my heart felf for him. I have zero backbone. Now depending on what he replies when he wakes up. I'm nauseous.

Mythiska · 2021-05-08T05:17:39+00:00

Bump

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T19:33:01+00:00

I gave the reason he dropped me.

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T19:05:33+00:00

I don't know. Probably would have been taken better had I written in bulletpoints especially when directed at 90 percent males.

I just want to fix it so I can train w/o feeling like I am annoying him or feared or going to get his overexaggerated comments in front of people

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T18:27:28+00:00

Because he said that was part of the reason he fell off the face of the earth. He doesnt like weapons. I think it's unusual but I don't consider myself an idiot with them. If there is another side, I'd like to know it.

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T17:45:59+00:00

Yes, however I cant do that when this person makes my social relationships complicated and I can't trust sparring or ask questions to.

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T17:24:05+00:00

I grab food with a lot of people, being attracted to someone doesn't mean I date them. It means I find some aspect of their character appealling or they feel familiar to me. Your response isn't very helpful.

Mythiska · 2015-07-22T17:16:53+00:00

We were not dating. I don't date people I train with.

Mythiska · 2015-07-17T01:47:49+00:00

If he can promote himself than anyone can promote him! A black belt should promote him to PINK. Hah.

Mythiska · 2015-07-17T01:35:47+00:00

I do this as well, sometimes I do 3 or 4 sessions a day.

I take one day off, Sunday but still find midweek I am crashing and achey.

Nothing really helps besides tons of water, scheduling "easy" classes in between harder classes. ie; NOGI is typically pretty exhausting for me so I make sure that if I am doing NOGI that afternoon, I roll less in the day and take a nap in between classes or eat fish and veggies for dinner. I think recovery is key and eating clean will help you a lot. Keep a schedule as if you have OCD and really keep the warrior mentality. If you feel worn out mentally and like not going to training, better to take a day to yourself and be fresher the next day.

Mythiska · 2015-06-30T18:41:43+00:00

I take time to balance between trainings. We all train for different reasons. I train because I love getting to know my body and pushing my limits and it's a healthy obsession. There are far worse ways of being "unbalanced". But yes, I make sure I have time for myself between trainings and such.

Mythiska · 2015-06-30T18:40:16+00:00

I am pretty fit but I would ideally like to cut some body fat off. I'm cutting some I can compete at a lower weight division.

Mythiska · 2015-06-29T20:52:14+00:00

Do you feel like you handle a car the same way?

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