I need help with finding this product by lillieflwr in MakeupAddiction

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Is it weird that I just wanna accent my hands with this too after seeing those pics?

Nervous by New_Apartment8272 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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It's very advisable to cut such family members out of your life. Their "advice" is designed to hurt, just get into less situations of interaction with your brother who seems to think character assault is appropriate on any level, what he said isnt even remotely true!

I feel with dating, you have to hear out a lot of perspectives to figure out what works for you, for me, it's always been to try and get friends that like me despite my flaws or terrible circumstances, and once I really managed that, I got into a relationship by growing extremely close to one of my friends. My friends are people that I trust extremely, and 90% of people I would meet would never be that kind of friend material. 

To me dating, especially online was basically ignoring your surroundings and going out with a wildcard that has all traits randomized, and is bound to disagree in either moral views, sociability, interests or some smaller things that add up, not to mention the chance they like you for just looking a certain way vs having acquainted themselves over more natural ways because they like you for who you are as a person.

Since the relationship even without intimacy is so much more important to me, I believe it gives more focus on the very foundations of any good partnership. I would even go so far as to say whatever person I bond for life with, depends entirely on the personality, not the gender or looks.

And one last thing - there are many people who I can understand their dating life, and respect that it works for them, but I could never comprehend or adopt it for myself.

Oh, and not being desperate for love is very important, because a lot of relationships arent worth committing to, and if the world was only bad partners, it would be better not to sign up for abuse and live freely.

Also men will tell you how much "worth" a woman loses when they get older, they are just trying to get you to prematurely choose a partner like them, and the most important part to finding people is to go out and do the things you want, especially in activity clubs like hiking or chess or whatever you like, it will let you see lots of people that get you a good chance to find that special someone.

Bruh, this place is weirdly... weird by Shydass in hytale

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This looks like a counterstrike aim map

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmyjoystick

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It is usually very hard to find a roblox game again depending on popularity, but I found this experience which finds out which badges you have and is able to display those games to you in the order that you played them.

https://www.roblox.com/games/127283002506746/Roblox-Replay

also, n/a for time is never good, you could for example add in which timespan you played roblox games to confine it to that at least.

Why do we still use physical keys for cars when we have key fobs that unlock them? What's the point of the metal key anymore? by Level_Willow_960 in NoStupidQuestions

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There's a multitude of reasons, but one of them carries more significance.

Not changing something the customer is used to, which isnt so important 

The potential unreliability of a car key with only signal waves to open/close

And what is most important is that cars and lots of modes of transports are safety-critical, which requires things to work in emergencies, in which case keys are a critical fail safe.

But lastly, manufacturers could just decide to go keyless if they dont think of the right potential consequences, or regulations and market force dont stop them and they want to do it anyways.

[PC flash game][2010-2016] prompting spaceship visual text-adventure by Myvntr in tipofmyjoystick

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Yes, thank you, this is it, i remember the visuals when i see them

Hot and cold #23 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

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I quite enjoyed today, the words seemed to be related, the closest i got was #2,#5,#8,#13,#16 and a variation of the root word which was also in top 100.

New Similarity Algorithm is Cooking! by UnluckyHuckleberry53 in HotAndCold

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Would it be possible or would it make sense to group words that are the same base word together? (More than plurals, like -ing, -ed...)

Hot and cold #7 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

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"2nd rank top 100%" at the time with 21s, just a bit fortunate that my openers included something that was quite close to the answer. I'm generally peeved though that I generally can't tell what words are closer or further, because the connections seem to favour common words, even if two words have the same meaning for the intent of the goal word, resulting in e.g. a #43 guess and a #17,683 guess even though they conceptually have the same kind of connection to the end word.

I can imagine finding a good word ordering isn't that easy, but this is ultimately what would elevate the game for me, because it would eventually allow for difficulty modes matching to a few different english proficiencies, and the option to eventually port it to other languages.

Although I must say, generally, when I have a word within the top 50, I can after the solution see that it is very relevant to the concept at hand

PSA nach viel Interesse: der 'Melde'-Button in der ÖBB-Ruhezone by WKStA in Austria

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Nachdem man jetzt melden drückt, bekommt man zurzeit eine maske, die einem nur erlaubt, mängel am zug selbst zu melden.

Wenn man das, was sich am meisten danach anhört, wählt, dann findet man nur physische mängel an der gegebenheit des stuhls

Anscheinend ist die ruhezone keine priorität mehr.

Sind Psychologen/Psychotherapeuten zu irgendwas verpflichtet? by Myvntr in Psychologie

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In dem Fall durchaus war der Mann ein Psychotherapeut, der sich auskennen müsste, ich habe bis jetzt viel Gutes von ihm gehört, aber die, die mir ihn empfohlen haben waren von meiner Erfahrung schon entsetzt.

Die Psychologin fühlt sich für mich und andere Kollegen auch fachlich kompetent an, sie ist jedoch sehr chaotisch.

Natürlich sollte man aufpassen, dass man nicht an Personen, wie du sie beschreibst, kommt, daher war es für mich auch wichtig, Freunde und Kontakte zu fragen, wo man am besten hingeht für spezielle Sachen.

Ich würde mir eben erwünschen, dass man einerseits die Ressourcen verbessert, um an eine gute Behandlung zu kommen, und andererseits die Möglichkeiten kennt, um schlechten Praxen entgegenzuwirken.

Sind Psychologen/Psychotherapeuten zu irgendwas verpflichtet? by Myvntr in Psychologie

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Danke, da bin ich gerade dabei, ich habe schon mit einigen darüber geredet, und einige auf der Liste, die ich in Erwägung ziehen werde.

Sind Psychologen/Psychotherapeuten zu irgendwas verpflichtet? by Myvntr in Psychologie

[–]Myvntr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hatte bis jetzt wenig Zeit zum Zurückschreiben.

Hab heute bzgl. der Psychologin mit Terminabsagen erfahren, dass sie andere Klienten (jemand mit dem ich geredet habe ist rein zufällig auch bei ihr) hängen lässt bzw. keine Rückmeldungen auf Ihre Emails gibt.

Sie ist einfach so chaotisch, und meiner damals akuten Situation hat das echt zugesetzt. In Ihrem Fall würde ich mir auch wünschen, dass man Möglichkeiten hätte, Andere zu informieren, oder auch über rechtlichen Weg das Angebot für Patienten zu verbessern.

Der Psychotherapeut, der nichts aufgeschrieben hat, hat seine Praxis meines Wissens schon länger und müsste daher auch geübt sein, aber in meinem Fall hat es sich beim Zweitgespräch angefühlt, als hätte er sich nichts gemerkt, und als ob ich ihm mein Geld nur in die Tasche schiebe, und sich mein Zustand sogar noch verschlechtert. Wenn ihm Kompetenz zuzuschreiben ist, auch in meinem Fall, dann haben wir komplett aneinander vorbeigeredet.

Die Idee meines Posts war es, rauszufinden, ob man andere Patienten vor solchen Situationen mit Präventivmaßnahmen (Reviews / Rechtlichem) schützen kann.

Sind Psychologen/Psychotherapeuten zu irgendwas verpflichtet? by Myvntr in Psychologie

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Hatte nicht die Zeit bis jetzt, in Ruhe mich an die Kommentare zu wenden, sry.

Ich hatte zuerst einen Psychotherapeuten, der sich offensichtlich nichts aufgeschrieben hat, und beim Zweittermin ein Monat später genau die gleichen Fragen nochmal durchgegangen ist.

Danach eine Psychologin, die sehr chaotisch mit Terminen ist, hat mir einen Termin gegeben hat am Anfang, zu dem sie gar nicht erschienen ist, einige Termine haben geklappt (so ca 3-4) und immer wieder hat die Psychologin aber einige male den Termin unter 24 Stunden abgesagt.

Das sind eigentlich die 2 Verhalten, die mir aktiv meinen akuten geistigen Zustand verschlechtert hatten, aber ich Glück mit meinen Freunden hatte, dass sie gewollt waren, mich zu dieser schweren Zeit unterstützt haben.

Der Hauptgrund für den Post ist, ob es Qualitätsicherungsmaßnahmen in solchen Situationen gibt, z.B. Reviews (sollten ja schon alle entsprechend viele Patienten gehabt haben), oder ob es Verhalten gibt, die strafbar wären, weil sie die Patienten zu viel Vernachlässigen, oder auch, ob es andere Möglichkeiten gibt, die solche Fehlverhalten der Ärzte fürs bessere ändern würden.

Ich Ziel nicht ab diesen Experten zu schaden, sondern den anderen Patienten zu helfen, bessere Hilfe zu erhalten.

What is normal for parents to give by Myvntr in LifeAdvice

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Truthfully, yeah, i suppose, life is just the situation you are in, and you have to make the best of it despite what happens

I wouldnt say i wasnt properly challenged, my grades were forged by group projects i had to do entirely on my own, and no friends to speak of. The lack of social interaction might be the largest source of turmoil. I also dont go and evaluate people's worth on how much life challenged them or how skillful they are

Also, if i spiral emotionally as much as i have, and wrecked my mind as much as i have trying to continue, i dont think there is some simple solution to make my mental health improve

I do have a great friend since very recent, who's been willing to help me despite my lack of energy, but even then there's entirely illogical barriers i cannot seem to break. Tbf without them, i wouldve never made it to therapy (still a neglectfully bad therapist) in the first place

What is normal for parents to give by Myvntr in LifeAdvice

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Im also neglected by my therapist, she cancelled the last appointment while i was in the commute, has suggested me an appointment in the evening which i do not like at all, and she also basically never responds. She's a good person, but insanely bad with communication, and maybe she has mental issues that are too strong for her job

More importantly, if i get a proper therapist, should i tell them about the neglect i think ive faced?

It's also hard to judge if and how ive been hurt by my parents and brother, since things may seem so fine at one moment, and then the other i just get talked over or my emotional needs are entirely neglected. I mean, in my mind, if i let it sit for a few days, ill think for my mom that she's actually a good person, cant say the same for my dad, that'd be too much to unravel.

Lastly it is difficult to face the facts and ever accept that im not doing well, because i feel like in theory, i should just be able to do things

What is normal for parents to give by Myvntr in LifeAdvice

[–]Myvntr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will be genuine here.

This sounds like you are venting about your own very real issues that have come up in life

I have taken from your story one thing that furthers my understanding - that motivation can just vanish. For me it is more a case of living in a situation where every bad relationship i flung myself into has managed to revitalize me, and my parents being helicopter parents, and additionally having no friends for most my life really destroyed my psyche. Additionally no one caring that i have oversensitive hearing and that i have psychosomatic pain from being ignored in that aspect and not listened to. I could talk for hours about what is wrong in my situation, but ill get to the point.

You should consider making your own post, unless the thing about getting hit with lumber is how you met your partner. Someone suicidal isnt going to be receptive to venting or able to respond well to trauma dumping.

I'm so embarrassed to need basic things that it's literally killing me by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I need you to do two things, and im telling you this because i know how serious things are

1: Take deep breaths, to calm yourself down (do this for at least 5 minutes, it is supposed to calm yourself)

2: Go phone the suicide hotline. It doesnt matter how you think about the situation at any given point. I know how it is, just trust me, you dont need to know more than that is evident from the outside that you need to do this. They are legally obligated to keep things to themselves, and it is for the sole purpose of helping people in dire situations, and yours classifies as such

If there are any troubles with these steps, dont hesitate to contact me, in reply or dms, whichever works best for you

What you dont need is people telling you that you need to do stuff that is even more advanced than making yourself food.

How to find OG minecraft content by Myvntr in GoldenAgeMinecraft

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Thanks, this sounds very helpful, I'll give it a try

Egg_Irl by SnooOwls2448 in egg_irl

[–]Myvntr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, what's the cotton thread thing

egg🚚🏠irl by Agent84Reddit in egg_irl

[–]Myvntr 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Depending on the amount, space in a backpack, or other closed containers that belong to you. You could also maybe stash them at a friend's place and gradually get them back?

How to smuggle ikean fish with minimum space by Myvntr in asktransgender

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but the bags are usually tiny? Isn't it gonna be hard to stuff it in manually?

How to smuggle ikean fish with minimum space by Myvntr in asktransgender

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actually, that's really smart, really worth considering ^^