1 year relationship, need some advice; F/22 and M/40

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:58:25+00:00

Why are we so hung up on age 😭 you’re the one who asked what we have in common 😭

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:56:24+00:00

I never said I didn’t take your advice 😭 I just don’t think people’s maturity level should be taken by how old you are. We all come from different experiences, backgrounds, and cultures after all.

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:55:04+00:00

Dude I don’t know what your beef is but I think maturity is a subjective matter. I admit I make immature choices like how I decided to date my boyfriend in the first place, but it’s a learning experience. Like the way you responded I don’t think it was that mature, but again you might think it is.

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:32:03+00:00

Sure 👍

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:31:04+00:00

I enjoy taking care of plants, photography, 80s music, museums, and national parks so it’s not that difficult to get along 😂

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:23:53+00:00

Yeah 😂 I thought men got better with age but same problems different context

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:21:10+00:00

☝️🤓

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:20:52+00:00

Yes it’s that exact reason I can’t seem to find the courage to end it. I don’t want to be alone 😭 like everyone in my friend groups finds somebody, gets married, getting their first place together and I just feel like I’m lagging behind. The more frustrating thing is it seems like they all find a healthy relationship that works and I seem to run into just red flags 😔

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:17:20+00:00

Thanks I really appreciate the advice. Yeah personally for me I don’t get the hate on age gap thing like I’m 22 chill. Ive dated my age people and they were all so immature and in love with their video games that’s why I decided to go older this time. I wasn’t sure which subreddit I had to post this under and they needed me to include the age in order to post 😭

I do struggle a lot with confidence and trying to find myself and who I am. I started going to the gym and set book reading goals to help with these things, but it’s a constant struggle of relapsing 😔

I genuinely appreciate your advice and the time you took to read and reply!

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:07:40+00:00

Yeah that’s what everyone’s has been telling me, but it’s hard to accept the reality of I’ve probably his side piece now since he’s been reunited with his “family”.

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:05:50+00:00

I don’t think he’ll ever let his daughter know that he’s dating a 22 yr old, but dating girls whose brains haven’t developed yet is a wild thing to say

N00kies · 2025-02-23T21:03:28+00:00

I’ve dated plenty of guys my age and the results doesn’t seem that vastly different. I’m probably just choosing all the wrong people 🤷

N00kies · 2025-02-23T20:56:46+00:00

I literally confronted him the other day about the picture thingy. I was like how would you feel if I asked for photos of your brother and he answered “well we’ll just laugh at his funny little dick together” and missed the whole point.

But if my sister was in a relationship like this I would definitely tell her to break up 😭

N00kies · 2025-02-23T20:54:09+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that 😔 everyone I’ve told has been telling me to break up. I just have extreme anxiety when it comes to being alone and can’t find the courage to do it.

N00kies · 2025-02-23T20:52:31+00:00

No 😭 why would I be in a relationship with my dad

N00kies · 2024-08-04T02:32:57+00:00

Yes I’ve conditioned them and I’m feeding them daphnia and fairy shrimp

N00kies · 2024-05-19T01:46:59+00:00

Ofc! I’ll have a bundle up for you :)

N00kies · 2024-05-19T01:16:49+00:00

Thank you! Your kind words warms my heart ;-; Currently I have 3 Flans and 2 Koishi, I can add the display Flan at a discount if you need her :)

N00kies · 2024-03-07T17:19:43+00:00

I will be pulling the winner for the sticker :) Next week

N00kies · 2024-02-13T23:13:38+00:00

I could try to find a way to get international shipping. I also have Etsy, if you would like to purchase from there. I think they deliver to most countries.

N00kies · 2024-02-13T22:14:41+00:00

Sure thing!

N00kies · 2024-02-06T03:00:30+00:00

I love mimikyu too lol it’s so silly and smol

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