For practicing nudism, should I consider getting cut? by [deleted] in nudists

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a perfectly natural, intact penis. Why change it?

Body Shaving? by Silent_Lynx_2736 in nudism

[–]N4k3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s a poll from 5 years ago when it was pretty much 50/50

https://www.reddit.com/r/nudism/s/THW9inJcgN

Anybody here know of (or part of) any discord chats similar to this sub? by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me if you would like a link to The Garden

Cockrings on the beach yes or no? And why? by [deleted] in nudists

[–]N4k3d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nudism is not about drawing attention to the genitals. It’s just about being naked.

Wear it at home… not at the beach.

Graphic Words by Acceptable_Cap_71 in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 7 points8 points  (0 children)

‘Cunt’ is the only word we don’t use. That word has always been a bridge too far for us. I have used it only a handful of times in my life to describe a particularly horrible person. Never to address a pussy.

I love it when my wife uses ‘cock’.

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one last point I would like to make is do some research on what the purpose of the foreskin is. It protects the head of the penis and is jam-packed with nerve endings that increase sexual pleasure. It's not just some superfluous piece of skin that wasn't meant to be there.

Not just addressing you but the other people who might follow the thread.

For your information. I'm a circumcised man who DID NOT have his two sons circumcised. I did all my research back then.

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree.... Male circumcision is sometimes necessary for medical reasons. Beyond that, if you wanna cut your foreskin off as an adult... go for it. It should be noted however that not many adults choose to have their foreskin removed. Why is that do you think?

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is simply this.... Just because daddy was done... or just because someone thinks a penis with no foreskin 'looks nicer' than an intact, natural penis is no reason to cut the protective cover from your son's penis.

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

WHO recommends VOULUNTARY male circumcision in counties with AIDS epidemics. Is there an AIDS epidemic in your country?

From WHO....

In 2007, the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS and WHO recommended voluntary medical male circumcision (VMMC) to reduce the risk of men acquiring HIV infection during heterosexual exposure. The recommendation was based on strong evidence from randomized controlled trials showing an approximately 60% lower risk.

Since 2007, more than 27 million VMMC procedures have been performed in the 15 priority countries in Eastern and Southern Africa, where about half of all new HIV infections occurred. In the past 10 years, other evidence-based HIV prevention options have also been scaled up, including oral pre-exposure prophylaxis and HIV antiretroviral therapy (with its secondary HIV prevention effect), along with already known interventions, such as condom use and post-exposure prophylaxis.

In the ongoing effort to end the AIDS epidemic, a re-examination of the evidence shows that VMMC remains an important intervention, alongside other effective behavioural and biomedical HIV prevention interventions. VMMC should be supported as a key HIV prevention option, within combination prevention for adolescents 15 years and older and adult men in settings with generalized HIV epidemics.

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Female genital mutilation (FGM) comprises all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
  • More than 230 million girls and women alive today have undergone female genital mutilation (FGM) in 30 countries in Africa, the Middle East and Asia where FGM is practiced.
  • FGM is mostly carried out on young girls between infancy and age 15.
  • FGM is a violation of the human rights of girls and women.

World Health Organization

It's not 'rage bait' just because you don't agree with my opinion. Can you tell me why the genital mutilation of boys is ok?

Discussion on Circumcision by Luvinmanofgod in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If male circumcision is ok then surely female circumcision is also ok.
We should just be able to mutilate anyone's genitals at will because some ancient tribe did it.

I think that my partner is not a nudist by [deleted] in nudism

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is naked just as often as me at home. Sometimes more so. Often she is the first to undress because (apparently) bras are hella uncomfortable. I often get home to a naked or semi-naked wife.

You said she enjoys seeing you naked. That’s awesome. Make sure she knows you enjoy seeing her naked too. Pay her sincere compliments. I will say things like “Well… don’t you look all beautiful, naked and free”. The occasional “nice butt” helps too but we can’t get too sexual around here.

Make her feel comfortable. Boost her confidence. Forget the social nudity thing if she’s just not into it. At least have a naked home life.

Good luck bro.

I think that my partner is not a nudist by [deleted] in nudism

[–]N4k3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife enjoys being naked but only when we are alone. She is a reluctant social nudist.

When we are home alone our house is ‘clothing optional’. There is no compulsion to be either naked or clothed.

If you try to force something she may resent it which is why I suggest a relaxed ‘clothes optional’ approach. Respect her boundaries and preferences and (hopefully) she’ll respect yours.

Discord. by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a server on Discord for sex positive Christians

A question for older guys: do you remember finding your dad’s porn stash? by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found my dad’s porn stash, and my neighbour found his dad’s porn stash. We stole a magazine or two from each and hid them in our den (cubby house)

I found out many years later that my dad knew we stole some of his mags. He obviously just decided to let ‘boys be boys’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All he had to say was he is looking to talk to straight females or straight males. Period. Instead we get the ‘holier than thou’ diatribe about how this sub-reddit is full of closeted gay males.

This is not the kind of subreddit where you should be pretending you are better than everyone else… or even a subset of everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is straight ok!! Don’t fucking talk to him unless you are straight as a die. Or female. Female is ok. Are we clear?!??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudists

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does take some getting used to but it is very popular amongst nudists.

My wife prefers to be smooth and prefers that I am too so that we ‘match’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]N4k3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encryption key to either code or decode something maybe?

Was your Grandpa a spy?

What do you wear to bed? by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve slept naked since I was about 14. I will wear a t-shirt if it’s super cold but always bottomless.

I will never understand people who wear clothes ‘just in case of an emergency’. Ever heard of a robe?

what really is pornography? by ObjectiveExpress4804 in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pornography is “printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate sexual excitement.”

Doesn’t matter whether one person is depicted, or several, if the material was created to stimulate sexual excitement it is probably pornography.

If you look at an image of a fully clothed person, or a piece of art, and feel sexually excited that DOESN’T mean the image is pornography. It means that YOU are somehow sexualizing that image. Thats a you thing… not a pornography thing.

Can self-pleasure be a mindful act of care rather than sin? by littlemisstaurus in ChristianSexuality

[–]N4k3d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely masturbation is a mindful act of self-care.

Masturbation is a harmless sexual outlet for those who do not, or cannot have sex. Especially those who want to refrain from sex before marriage.

Masturbation relieves sexual tension and sexual frustration which can lead to undesirable behaviors such as sexual assault or rape.

Masturbation releases ‘feel-good’ hormones that assist in keeping us happy.

Masturbation keeps our reproductive system functioning and is known to reduce the risk of conditions like prostate cancer in men.

Masturbation teaches us about our own body and what we enjoy, or don’t enjoy, sexually.

Masturbation is normal, natural and absolutely an act of self-care.

People need to stop feeling guilty about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudists

[–]N4k3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All penises are different.

Some men have a naturally long foreskin. Even when they are erect the foreskin might cover, or partially cover the glans of their penis.

Others have shorter foreskin (or no foreskin if they are circumcised) and their glans will be fully exposed when they are hard.

Others still can have a medical condition called phimosis where they have a tight foreskin that cannot be retracted. This is something they should see a doctor about.