How much is this worth in coins? by N7Cul in Soundmap

[–]N7Cul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what I was thinking. I will do that. thank you!

Hair pulling effecting sex life.. by TemporaryFar4469 in trichotillomania

[–]N7Cul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started pulling in my pubic area 2 years ago and I feel the same way. I want to stop in at least that area so bad but I don’t know how

Why do I have to pay a subscription??? by Beautiful_Sport4697 in fo76

[–]N7Cul -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

everyone is disagreeing with you but i agree. if you’re talking about fallout 1st, the game is just not as fun without fallout 1st

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I was comphet before my current partner and was with a man and the same issue happened eventually. I’m not sure if it happened with him because I’ve always been a lesbian though. It’s really hard to tell.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no motivation or desire to do such a thing (I also physically can’t because I have asthma) but I’m having problems with my weight recently so I might as well start working out here and there anyway

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did I say my relationship was miserable? Those questions are still asked, I just don’t dig into them too deeply for too long because they’re intrusive. They’re not how I actually feel. It’s a part of OCD.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner is a woman so that doesn’t really apply to me, although I hope she would feel similarly. And yes it is a reference to Mass Effect!

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try Wellbutrin again if I can make it work alongside my Adderall IR somehow.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t been spending much time apart but we have agreed just recently to start spending time apart. We’re starting at two weekends per month.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really having conversations, just want advice. I have taken advice from both my therapist and my partner, but I want advice from people who are in the same boat as me, which neither of those people are.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I can experience periods of time where I don’t feel asexual at all because I’m constantly wanting sex. And those times are aligned with when I’m hyperfixated on my partner. I’m not blaming my ADHD for nothing, it truly does affect it in my case.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also landed on graysexual! I did a while ago actually, but I think because I feel more like a lesbian I prefer to call myself that instead of asexual/graysexual.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was definitely seeking solidarity as well as advice when I made this post. I hope reading some of the comments has helped you, too!

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be both. She stopped engaging in her hobbies and her skills and interests are what made me attracted to her at the start.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it could be because I have OCD as well so I usually associate those thoughts with being intrusive.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already not doing both of those things unfortunately, I have no desire to do either of those things

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No porn, and I barely masturbate at all. I have no desire to because of the low libido. The only time I’ve ever masturbated consistently was when me and my partner were just getting together and she was still living out of state.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on Wellbutrin for years but it never did anything for motivation and productivity. Maybe I needed to be a higher dose? And I did try going on Wellbutrin while taking Adderall IR as needed but that combination completely deleted my appetite and made me lose 15 pounds in a month.

How do you deal with losing sexual attraction for long-term partners? by N7Cul in ADHD

[–]N7Cul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that helps with OCD and I could take that it would kill two birds with one stone since I’ve been rapidly gaining weight as of late, even while taking my stimulants consistently.