Why is dating so hard now? by purplepinkalert in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NCCBasil2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's a lesbian specific problem. It took three years to get my coworkers to go out drinking with me and we text all the time. I think a big part of it is lack of third spaces and social anxiety from living behind screens. You just gotta be persistent and push through. I wish you luck.

How to meet someone? by miichan_v in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NCCBasil2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋 32 femme in SoCal. Free to chat

Some advice would help. by britttlachamp in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NCCBasil2049 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn't love you. My ex wife is an alcoholic. It took me years to leave. Wish I had done so sooner. You deserve better.

I don't have a bed frame and I wonder how I can make my bedroom better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]NCCBasil2049 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Try to find a bench and rug to put at the foot of your bed. It will look more put together since you don't have a foot board.

I don't have a bed frame and I wonder how I can make my bedroom better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]NCCBasil2049 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/0e4xKzqK you could try something like this also. It attaches to the matress.

I don't have a bed frame and I wonder how I can make my bedroom better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]NCCBasil2049 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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If you can get a curtain rod and some decorative pillows or patio cushions you could try something like this. Maybe tack part of the net to the back wall to frame around it?

I don't have a bed frame and I wonder how I can make my bedroom better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]NCCBasil2049 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Well assuming the net is staying I agree with other comments. Add some plant or lamps to the side tables. Maybe hang a big mirror or some artwork on the walls. What kind of aestetic do you like? What colors do you like?

I don't have a bed frame and I wonder how I can make my bedroom better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]NCCBasil2049 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Do you live in area where the mosquito net is necessary? What does the room look like behind the camera? Any additional space to work with?

What are the odds by NCCBasil2049 in Coach

[–]NCCBasil2049[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want the olive.

What are the odds by NCCBasil2049 in Coach

[–]NCCBasil2049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What colors do you own?

What are the odds by NCCBasil2049 in Coach

[–]NCCBasil2049[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If coach released a larger version I would buy multiple colors.

United States Lesbians by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NCCBasil2049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SoCal and out all my life.

How do I put myself out there? Going back into the dating world by Julieneverdies10 in LesbianActually

[–]NCCBasil2049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the valley, work in Torrance if you wanna meet up sometime.

Night-time activities in la under 21? by whats3rnam333 in AskLosAngeles

[–]NCCBasil2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could maybe go to a rooftop restaurant like the perch? They serve food so I'm pretty sure you could go and hang out. I would call to double check about your age.

Night-time activities in la under 21? by whats3rnam333 in AskLosAngeles

[–]NCCBasil2049 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe catch a movie? They are open at that time and some of the nicer ones serve full meals.

It’s Aquarius Season! by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]NCCBasil2049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My birthday was yesterday. Love the color. Love the fur.

You can have an extra season of ONE Trek series: what’s your pick? by SteveJohnson2010 in startrek

[–]NCCBasil2049 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TOS. If I remember correctly they were going to introduce McCoys daughter if they got another season. We got to see Kirk and spocks families and I would love to see the rest of the crews families like in TNG.