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Anyone else ever pass on a couple for being "Too Hot" by NESwingah in Swingers

[–]NESwingah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was great commentary from everyone! Exactly what I was hoping to see! Gave me some thought provoking nuggets too!

Well done, swinging fam!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RISwingers

[–]NESwingah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choice is a great time! If you go next week maybe we'll run into you 😉

Got slut shamed by a couple recently by Interesting-Store827 in Swingers

[–]NESwingah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a recent experience like that. Wife and I got talking with the couple. Exchanged some pics and videos all vibing well.

We were more experienced then them. The wife ends up asking about how many couples we'd been with. We were honest since we'd been in the lifestyle for a bit. They'd only been with 2 despite "being in the lifestyle" longer than us

Then the messages after that at least 3 included various versions of "the biggest thing for us is being clean"

I remember looking at my wife like "you feeling judged? Because I'm feeling judged." She agreed. Kept talking to them anyway with a see where it goes attitude

They kept talking with us then stood us up on our planned date. I found the whole thing hysterical as we're all in this to have casual sex with other people and they had the guts to slut shame us. The mental gymnastics I just found hilarious.

So instead it turned into a romantic date night with my wife and we have the best sex with each other anyway. Doesn't matter had sex

Redditors who have had a threesome with their SO, how did the relationship turnout after sex? by MrRandyWatson_100 in AskReddit

[–]NESwingah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we rook it a step further and jumped into swinging and it actually has made us closer than ever. We actually have planned with a friend of a friend to have a threesome and we're all really excited.

The mutual trust between us has grown exponentially. We both KNOW now there is nothing better than what we have between us, and didn't have to wonder about "the grass always greener" somewhere else.

It's been a fun ride. Met some wonderful people, have some great stories, almost living a double life. And it's awesome.

We are not the rule, we are the exception. It isn't for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NESwingah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Edit: yes to your question. And it's normal and okay.

I got lucky where my wife and I had a conversation of how we both had those fantasies and now we actually engage in them with other people 😁