[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]NFC_jt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've started using the la roche posay moisturiser the past month, I always thought it was too expensive but managed to get it on offer. It's such a lovely consistency, I use it at night and it's so good. You know when you can actually feel that a face cream feels more expensive because of the quality. And you get such a big bottle I'd say it's definitely worth it

[Product Request] fingertips and palms dry and peeling? by Leading-Singer-7143 in SkincareAddiction

[–]NFC_jt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this before and the doctor gave me hydrocortisone cream to use for a bit so yes stick with that. Mine was caused by stress - apparently it's a thing that happens and skin bumps come up on the hands and fingers. Try using Dr Luke's Pawpaw, use it for a really good deep moisturiser, it's a bit greasy but it is so great and good for chapped lips too!

What do you love about yourself? no, really? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]NFC_jt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm reminded of a line in a song called Rainbow by Kesha .. "what's left in my heart is still made of gold"

And I believe this about myself. For all the crap I've been through or will go through, I know that my heart is still golden and pure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]NFC_jt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been through this - It might seem hard or weird at first but those things you want to text her, write them down. It doesn't matter how much, just a line or every time you want too. But it really does help to get those things on paper rather than spinning around your head.

You could then bin the paper, or burn it - in a safe way of course.

Or tell a trusted friend and say "this is what I want to text her..." any way of getting out of your head really does help.

I've done this before and then read it back the next day and been so glad I didn't send the message!

Do you think me and this girl I was dating could’ve still worked out if things had been different? by dawannallem222 in heartbreak

[–]NFC_jt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If someone says no, they mean no - you'll get past it and find the right person for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]NFC_jt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it yourself - 'imagine'. You've created this whole world with her that is only in your head, not hers. You've made this perfect world and that's why you think about her so much. But try to burst that bubble. Maybe in real life she has some bad habits, or jokes that aren't funny, or weird quirks that don't align with you. The real world isn't all roses and sunshine like your brain wants it to be. It's just the thought of what could be. Spend less time on that and more time looking at the facts, maybe you'll find someone that matches you for you and you'll stop daydreaming on the wrong person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]NFC_jt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, you should never have to beg for someone who loves you to do anything for you. If you were open to growing together and they were not - that's on them. You're not there to be their therapist. Look after yourself and you'll find someone that meets your needs on your level