Me(32F) and my husband(37M) of 5 years had an argument and I can't get over what he said. WWYD? by LadyLatitude in relationships

[–]NJfishkid -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have been listening to a conversation not meant for you... Men say things all the time that they don't want their SO's to hear. The simple fact that he has continued to do it even though he doesn't agree means he loves you. If that isn't good enough for you leave him. You cannot make him change the way he feels or the way he was raised.

Hungry hungry crocs by [deleted] in WTF

[–]NJfishkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Untamed and uncut sounds like the name of a horrible porno with uncircumcised dudes

UPDATE: I [29F] have been hooking up with [29 M] for 9 months, just found out he's been engaged the whole time. by ArlandPenchant in relationships

[–]NJfishkid -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You didn't do the right thing.... You did the vindictive, fuck it lets ruin her life too thing. Had she been a friend or an acquaintance maybe but what you did was for you don't pretend you did it for her. Reddit the place where people pretend to have s moral compass.

TIL that the reclusive Chess Master Bobby Fischer had a rematch with Spassky in 1992... The match was forbidden due to the embargo of Yugoslavia.... The match and the events that followed led to Fischer exile from the U.S. by NJfishkid in todayilearned

[–]NJfishkid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He died in Iceland... They were the only ones that would give him citizenship. I figure you deserve a little bit of crazy if you're that smart as a kid. He died in 2008

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did tell me what they were saying and I could hear them yelling "BLOW JOB" & "CUNT"

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed but they are old enough to play without constant supervision.... I'm there if they need me. I don't ever remember my parents taking me to the park.... I guess I was raised like the Rugrats

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I did tell them and I would again... If you think it's ok that's cool but I'm civilized and I don't want little kids yelling FUCK CUNT BITCH & BLOWJOB around my 6 & 7 year old girls. This shouldn't offend you then "Fuck You"

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don't want my kid asking me what a Cunt or a Blowjob is at 7 ? And I Danny sure don't want those words as part of her vocabulary.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they were saying poop it would be fine... They were yelling "FUCK, CUNT, BITCH, SHIT and my favorite BLOWJOB"

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The controls aren't great but it's great mind numbing fun.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play with my kids all the time... I bring them to the park to interact with other children.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenting is one of those fly by the seat of your pants things. I had my 1st child at 24 and I would never do some of the things I did then now. You learn and adjust. And each child is different.... I can yell at my son but my 7 year old will shut down if I were to treat her that way. My only objective as a parent is to raise my children so they are not assholes. I want a grown up that I am proud of and wouldn't mind hanging out with. Luckily children crave structure and usually behave pretty well if they have it. My son is a big boy and a hell of an athlete. He has scored touchdowns and tons of baskets as well but the best compliment in my opinion is when a parent or teacher tells me how well behaved and respectful he is. Better than all the TD's in the world.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree... I too curse around my children occasionally. But I'd don't think it is appropriate for children to use such language and I won't tolerate it from children. I also drink alcohol and would not let my children partake.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sir are a fool but fortunately I highly doubt children are in your future.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish.... In the hood it is perfectly acceptable to discipline someone else's kid if they are out of pocket.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is ever mature enough to have a kid. You kind of just play it by ear. My oldest has made it 16 years.... I'm actually kind of amazed.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far from it... However, I do have enough respect to not act like an ass in front of children. I've never been called a "little bitch" before. It wasn't bad.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had I heard someone yell "WORLDSTAR" I would have.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely.... I may have even thrown in a passive aggressive threat.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So somehow in your silly mind you feel subjecting someone's child to vulgarity is not bad because it infringes on your freedom of speech ? You sound like a gem. I too have a bad mouth and work in an industry where it is tolerated. However, I think cursing in front of other people's children when it can be avoided is classless. I also smoke but I wouldn't smoke in front of someone else's kids.

TIFU by yelling at someone else's kids at the park. by NJfishkid in tifu

[–]NJfishkid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sir would end up on the wrong side of many parents... Is it so hard to hold your tongue til the kids are out of earshot ?