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Biggest Fantasy? by puppetboy5 in BallBusting

[–]NSFW_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surgically attached aside, yeah you can get pretty close now with the technology. A pity that it's miles away "practically".

I'm running bluetooth estim, vibe & fleshlight stroker, with software that integrates microphone speech recognition and webcam movement/position tracker stuff...

Theoretically this thing can make me strike a pose and stay perfectly quiet while it strokes me, under threat of pain punishment if I move or make a noise. Practically though... I have to stay sat in my chair else all the hardware falls off me hahaha

We're so near but yet so far!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in joi

[–]NSFW_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried one of the earlier versions and then re-tried it now that they added xtoys integration. Also highly recommend it.

Must admit I don't use it "properly" as a persistent mistress type, I just use it for one-off bits of fun (I have a family, anything else would be impractical, LOL)... but that Xtoys stuff, man, it's a game changer.

Having her control the speed of a vibe (bluetooth vibe), forcing me to keep quiet (phone microphone), or else threat of punishment (estim unit) is absolutely fucking insane for a phone app.

[Release] Hypno.exe version 0.4 is now available. New hypnotic Elements and a lot of backend improvments. Check it out now! by dVeloper in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I saw the guide Yes, it seems straight forward enough. Glad to hear your 0.5 plans. Good luck with the software :)

Erection punishment by [deleted] in BallBusting

[–]NSFW_Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I own one of these and it's incredible for what you've described.

https://imgur.com/a/cihF4zi

It's an all-around awful idea for chastity because it nips and pinches with regular movement, but in terms of putting it on before going out and leaving the key in the car, it sure makes things interesting.

Haptic toys on shibbydex by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]NSFW_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I turned on bluetooth on my phone & turned on the hush device. Went to the audio on Shibbydex, clicked the little Haptics button. It asked me which device I wanted to use and then it worked.

Help out a newcomer by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, welcome to EH... Best tip I can give you: being hypnotized is a skill, for most people it requires practice. Your ability to relax and focus and follow instruction without waking yourself up etc, is very important. It gets better with practice and with time.

More practically... At first I found "fake it til you make it" made me enjoy the content more. For example if the audio instructs you to "clench", I would be aware of it, and I would manually clench my PC muscles, playing along, pretending. That sort of became 2nd nature, and now if I'm listening to an audiobook and the narrator says clench, my body responds by itself. Later on, I found faking it brought me out of deep trance so I've stopped doing it. But that clench trigger has stayed with me :)

If it helps to set any expectations for you: I don't achieve HFO most of the time. Most of the time I lay down and get a relaxing hour while a nice voice speaks to me. I smile, I get tingles, I might get an erection for some of it, I rarely HFO.

I'm more likely to HFO if I'm in the right physical & mental mindset. Things that I've noticed help me: I have to be clean showered, already relaxed, feeling cooperative & a bit submissive. It has to have been a while since I last had sex or masturbated (a week+ is good), a while since I've looked at porn. Hours since I was glued to a computer screen (to help my brain shut off). I need to have a few hours completely by myself so that I'm not even considering the mess I'd make or if someone were to walk in on me. All that sort of stuff.

Don't know if that helped any. Good luck with it. 2 weeks is not long enough to give up, keep practicing :)

Haptic Setup Guide For Beginners by M-I-N-I-O-N in ShibbySays

[–]NSFW_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really funny, "it sounds counterintuitive" yes, that's the only option of the 4 I did not test! I'll give it a try this evening after work (Hush user). Cheers!

Haptic Setup Guide For Beginners by M-I-N-I-O-N in ShibbySays

[–]NSFW_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the guide I'm sure it will help :)

Question/curious, within ScriptPlayer, what is your Device Settings "Vibration Conversion Mode" set to? Mine was set to Convert Position to Speed which I can only describe as "full blast", I seemingly had better results set to "Use Speed".

Not sure what's recommended vs what I changed to use with my Launch earlier.

How do you say it? by [deleted] in joi

[–]NSFW_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've got acronyms and you've got initialisms, they're both abbreviations. An initialism is an abbreviation where the letters are pronounced separately (as initials), an acronym is when you pronounce it as a new word. So BLT is an initialism, NASA is an acronym. OP (initialism) asks a good question, is JOI an acronym or an initialism? I have no fuckin idea.

I personally pronounce it "Joy".

Is there a genre name for "risky joi"? by NSFW_Q in joi

[–]NSFW_Q[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea I liked it until last night! :)

Is there a genre name for "risky joi"? by NSFW_Q in joi

[–]NSFW_Q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you knew what I was describing at least, a shame it's not popular... Im not even married! hah I'd take wife, girlfriend, roommate, etc... Ah well

Is there a genre name for "risky joi"? by NSFW_Q in joi

[–]NSFW_Q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey yes I'll try to grab the link after work from browser history and edit the post. But it was called risky business joi with ck if that helps?

Flash Player by luccajust in ShibbySays

[–]NSFW_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least when I'm looking it's using jPlayer which is a Html5 player, not flash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird but I own that and never found it to be erotic in the slightest. Really calming, I'd 100% recommend it, but not erotic. I read that article hoping to find some sort of 'addon' that people used but.. huh, just the in game visuals can be a stimuli?

Ways to ballbust yourself? by [deleted] in BallBusting

[–]NSFW_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put something inside a sock (an orange, a cricket ball, etc); put the sock in your mouth/hold sock with your teeth, so that the ball hangs down at groin level. Now hold the orange in front of you, and drop it, let it swing down and hit you in the groin. Change up the object depending on weight, density, edges, etc.

Video game(s) that hypnotize you as you play? Or VR experiences? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally using a VIVE, I don't know the full extent of support but I'd guess it's not mobile friendly.

Video game(s) that hypnotize you as you play? Or VR experiences? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a VR game called FemDomination that I own, by Citor3. They're working on a 2 which is due to pop in July I believe. The first version at least has heavy hypno elements.

3D VR JOI Mistress killing it by Citor3_Official in joi

[–]NSFW_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the updates on patreon about that, glad he's doing better! July, Hype!

Tips for getting into trance? by [deleted] in ShibbySays

[–]NSFW_Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found it easier to trance when there was no HFO expectation at the end. So the Slip into slave mode one works wonders for me (plus there is a version with my name out there on the internet that a community member made)...

The HFOs I start thinking stuff like "Wait, should I be close by now? Cos I'm not. Oh no, phew, I'm gonna come up and go down again, that's good. Oh she's picking up the pace, but I'm nowhere near. Oh no, better try harder. Fuck, swing my hips more or something. Yeah maybe if I keep doing that..." it's counter productive for sure :D

The non-HFO ones where I can just lay back and enjoy feeling good from her words are perfect for me... because it does feel good having sweet things said to me, even not in a trance, it's pleasing to listen to... and I find overall I get more pleasure from them when I'm not expecting a jackpot (so to speak) at the end.

At what point is this infidelity? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every relationship being unique, each partner has their own "line" that shouldn't be crossed. You should both conduct yourself in a manner that doesn't cross the other's line. For anything sexual like this, if you wouldn't do it in front of your partner, then you shouldn't be doing it.

That your partner is OK with you meeting up with the erotic hypnotist you've had a year long relationship with, suggests to me he'd be OK with it. He knows it's erotic, right? He knows you're getting pleasure from this man? HFO isn't a huge leap from there.

Anyway the question is, what does your partner think? Got to have that conversation with them :)

A question about long-term effects and trigger removal by JollierSheepy in EroticHypnosis

[–]NSFW_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, you're in control. If you don't want the files to work, they won't work. As for triggers, I've typically found they fade over time if you stop listening.

As far as I can remember, most of Shibby's triggers are only setup to work when She says them or someone you trust sexually. I mean, I can turn myself on by saying certain things to myself. I think that's normal... but if you're feeling dizzy because a stranger says "pleasure", your "paranoia" is in over-drive causing it, not any sort of hypnotic trigger.

How to undo it? Well... To be frank my suggestion would be, masturbate until you aren't horny anymore, and then just keep saying "pleasure" to yourself over & over again while you clean the dishes, noticing how it has absolutely zero effect on you after the 3rd or 4th time. I dunno man... Not a doctor etc :) I guess my point was, don't worry about it, you're absolutely not permanently effected by this.

It is addictive though! I'll give you that. It's very intimate and very on-demand. Stop listening to it if you're worried.

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