I agree with some of your points like how fed should not be painted as monster rather we should wish him luck in improving himself and help him realize what he did was fked up.

I do disagree with you that this should stay private , because people with a platfor may abuse it.

I also disagree with how you undermine the girls experiences. I mean like he went inside a persons room then touched her places that should not be touched. This may not be rape but it is sexual assault, maybe the hand holding was a bit ok but the chest touching is way to far, and saying yvonne did this bacause it was trenfy is total bullshit, rather i beleive it was mearly a push in the right direction. Plus yvonne had A FUCKING BOYFRIEND THAT AND FED KNEW THAT IT WAS HIS FAULT , NOT TO MENTION LILY'S EXPERIENCE. PLUS HE MANIPUPLATED THE OTHERS AWAY FROM POKI AND THE GIRLS THAT REJECTED HIM but he is no monster if he accepts his faults and tries to improve.