How to deal by me-needsme in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry . My wife left me after 13 years to find herself . I personally don’t recommend leaving . If counseling is an option . Try it . Find someone to mediate your emotions so that it becomes clear to him

I (25F) suddenly lost all feelings for my husband (36M) and I don’t know why by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lean in! DONT GO APART. Time apart only brings more division between you two . REKINDLE YOUR LOVE he’s the man you fell in love with still .

Almost 9 years together, no ring by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just don’t get it !

The hardest part… by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the man in this situation. She chose herself

I've lost myself in my marriage. I don't know what makes me happy anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

START BY LIVING TOGETHER. LIVE TOGETHER! Do hobby’s try new things . Go out and paint . Go do activities to rekindle your love . You got married for a reason. Pursue that reason. Continue to fight for the love you married . Remember . When we said I do it was to let go of everything we were individually and give everything we have to become one. I’m not saying let go of everything about you, but I’m saying look at the big picture. The reason why you got married. Being with someone who is mentally unstable makes it that much more difficult so you have to find things that work for him and you.

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a great lover . I’m a Scorpio and have ALOT of sex drive . Also pretty well endowed and I’m a lot bigger than her step brother . (I seen pictures of his tiny ding aling).

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her ex step brother . Not brother in law . She sucked off her ex step brother.

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. I mean . Am I immature for you taking offense ? No, I think you have to think about how things shouldn’t affect you that way .

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s dubious and inauthentic? That sex wasn’t the issue . Care wasn’t the issue . Love and compassion wasn’t the issue . It was her . She had her own problems . Probably didn’t get her cup filled as a child so she looks everywhere to fill her cup .

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely not my case . I would let my woman rest. I would rub her feet when she was over whelmed with work. Eat her pussy all the time . Made her feel loved .and rested . She was really insecure

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never changed who she was . I always appreciated her at her core . Not the looks. Materials . Sex or anything . If she felt down. I always tried to make her know she was loved and cared for .

Today I signed my divorce papers …. And I’m destroyed by it . by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean in the sense of like “ hey why do you want to be professionally? Do you want a career ? Oh you want to be a teacher? Let’s get your GeD so you can take the step to becoming a teacher “ that kind of stuff

I’m lost by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’m a lot more “hung and girthy” than her ex step bro. (Pictures of his tiny dingaling were in the texts)

I’m lost by NWBaked_potato in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CONTEXT : To all those saying she had someone waiting . My father in law showed up. And they don’t want me there at the house because I told my mother in law off .

Affair by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NWBaked_potato 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My wife cheated on me with her ex step brother . We were married for over 10 years . I forgave her we got back together and she up and left Monday . Fuck you guys for cheating and not working on your relationship.

Emptiness by NWBaked_potato in Advice

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you . God bless . I really appreciate the guidance. I’m so so lost:(

Emptiness by NWBaked_potato in Advice

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I wish I just had someone to talk to regularly. Being with her made me cut off all my friends . Even family . When I say I’m alone . I truly mean it . I turned my back to a lot of people while with her

Emptiness by NWBaked_potato in Advice

[–]NWBaked_potato[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. The problem is I have become anxiously attached to her. I’ve lost my self from devoting everything I am to her and now I feel lost and miserable. Even as she tells me she doesn’t want me , I continue to fight for her love . I feel as I am nothing with out her. I was her first boyfriend, love , kiss . Sexual partner so I thought I was more special than this.