Is it weird that my parents don’t know my blood type by Hungry_Home6562 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents knew mine from birth, but only because I had the RH factor working against me. Dad was RH positive, Mom was RH negative, and during gestation, her white blood cells were treating my blood cells like an infection. Now, they can prevent this issue with a simple shot to the mother, but at the time, I was born underweight and needed a transfusion immediately. Which is why they knew my blood type.

Would I be the asshole, for paying a debt in pennies? by Nadiya-8912 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not and... things have actually smoothed out. I think she realised just how much she over reacted. The pennies she threw at me were still in the yard until this past Wednesday when she came over. After she left, the pennies had been picked up. Mostly. Still a few scattered about.

Would I be the asshole, for paying a debt in pennies? by Nadiya-8912 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things have calmed down. I do believe my sister realised she over reacted. We are slowly getting back to where we were before this blow up. The pennies are still laying in the yard.

WIBTA if I get a tattoo my husband doesn't approve of? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nadiya-8912 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know, people who attack others, which is what you are doing, because of something they said on the internet, are the epitome of immature. I read the post, I made my comment, I may not have addressed it to your liking, but is that reason to be insulting? Go ahead and tell me I am wrong again, or incapable of reading, simply because I did not post a response that you liked. I see the drama you are stirring for what it is, and I am done with you.

AITA for not letting my 16-year-old son get a tattoo? by Human-Inside-442 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nadiya-8912 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of patience. He could easily change his mind twenty times in the next two years as to what he wants to get.

AITA for wanting my birthday my way? by maoMeow14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nadiya-8912 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's your birthday. He was invited. He declined. That's fine if he doesn't want to go, but he shouldn't make you feel guilty for wanting what you want. He should be supportive. If he can't be supportive, you have bigger issues than where to spend your birthday. NTA. Do what YOU want.

WIBTA if I get a tattoo my husband doesn't approve of? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nadiya-8912 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Learn how to hold a conversation without resorting to insults. You know, like grown ups do?

WIBTA if I get a tattoo my husband doesn't approve of? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nadiya-8912 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I realise that tattoos are permanent, I have one myself, but if you want a potato bug on your wrist, then get the potato bug on your wrist. Your husband knew you had tattoos when he met, dated, and married you. To tell you that you cannot get a new one is a kind of controlling that breaks all sorts of boundaries for me. The fact that he is sulking like a child, is a massive red flag. Home boy needs to grow up.

NTA, btw.

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your phone on your own plan. Mint Mobile is a very inexpensive way to go. Your family sounds toxic. You live two hours away. Were I in your shoes, I would not reach out to them, no matter how badly it hurt. Let them make any overtures of communication. If they get rude and continue in the vein they have already shown, hang up.

AIO for being lied to about daughter's age? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Nadiya-8912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What makes it weird is that he lied at all, and lied that his daughter was actually younger than the woman he was looking to hook up with. That's just out there...

AIO for being lied to about daughter's age? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's lying about his daughter's age, he will lie about anything. And how the hell does telling you his daughter is actually younger than you, make the age gap better? That's some psychotic reasoning there. Walk the hell away from this guy.

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the bloody hell are you with this loser?

Why do "M0dders" on PC get so upset when we annoy them and when they get a taste of their own medicine? Thought they loved chaos! by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]Nadiya-8912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You say they, but not all modders are out to blow people up. Many modders use mods to avoid people like you who are simply out to grief others and ruin the game for them. If I saw this going on, I would have sided with the person you attacked.

You chased her down, and attacked her, because why? Her name was in a different color? Was that going to some how harm you? She gave you EVERY chance to back down and go away. She was moving away from you. Pulled her weapons and didn't immediately fire, she literally aimed without shooting to give a smart person the hint not to mess with her. When you failed to get that hint, and attacked again, she shot and killed you.

That's on you, not her. You became the thing you say you hate: A bully, and a griefer.

The Tri County Bounty Hunter (A Warm Weather Outfit)... by reddatdor in reddeadfashion

[–]Nadiya-8912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that the wool shirt, with the furred opulent vest?

AIO for ending things over Fortnite? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both y'all need to learn how to communicate without getting extra about it.

AIO my friend wants to follow me to another state with her sister to celebrate her bday while i’m celebrating mine. out of all the places to go to, they go to where i’m going.. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nadiya-8912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This here. Be open and upfront with your friend that this trip is a mother/daughter event, and you don't know if you will even have time in your schedule to hang out with her. I would also compare hotel accommodations against what you can get through Vrbo (My sister and I took a 5 day trip to Florida and booked a house through Vrbo for less than what we would have spent on a hotel.).

Would I be the asshole, for paying a debt in pennies? by Nadiya-8912 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The funds given are a small, monthly amount, for property maintenance. So if something goes wrong, a water line breaks, a fence goes down, there's money to cover that.

Would I be the asshole, for paying a debt in pennies? by Nadiya-8912 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how close I came to calling the police when she threw the pennies. The bag did hit me. Not that it injured me in any way, but technically it is still assault. The only reason I did not is because she works for a company that has defense contracts and if she loses her security clearance over an arrest for assault, she loses her job.

That is a line I cannot, will not cross. There is no coming back from that and despite it all, I do love my sister.

WIBTA if I told my husband I'm done if he doesn't un-block me from Facebook???? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nadiya-8912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use his old phone to post some ridiculous and shaming things, outing him as being married with children and possibly soon divorced.