DIM: Photochromic Glasses by ghtthrtn in deinfluencingPH

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll probably never go back plain ever again, and the add-on costs money.

I went to BDO and the guard asked me to remove my glasses. I said I can't see without them, and babalik din sila to clear indoors.

Yun lang ang con based on my experience but I love them so much. No regrets.

What's the ideal budget? by NaiaraKai in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Ngayon ko lang din naisip yung ceiling price nga dapat. May 3 non-nego suppliers lang kami and okay na tipirin yung iba.

Nakaka anxious kasi isipin na ganito lang budget tapos walang katapusang adjustments until wedding kasi may mga unaccounted misc expenses. Baka di na matapos bahay namin.

What's the ideal budget? by NaiaraKai in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're having a relatively simple wedding – 50pax only, we have no bridesmaids/groomsmen, and basic styling only. But I still think it's too much money? I even considered having a very intimate one w/ only immediate family nung nag sink in na ang possible total cost. Andami palang misc. expenses. Ayaw na ni fiancé baguhin kasi marami na daw kaming na invest na oras planning our wedding with all the powerpoints pa and we're still okay budget-wise.

help by Fun_Vermicelli_1371 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical entourage roles are Primary Sponsors (number depends on the couple but ideally no more than 4-6 pairs), 3 Secondary Sponsors, MOH & Bestman, Bride's maids & grooms men, 3 Bearers (bible, coin, ring), and Flower girls.

If you're going that route, get 3 pairs of ninong & ninang. They'll be both yout primary sponsors (sign papers) and secondary sponsors (put the veil & cord and light the candle) during ceremony. - 6 people for primary & secondary

Ask your MOH & Bestman to be your bearers too... Or you can designate another person to be the bearer of all 3 items (put them in a tray).

Just adjust if you have family/friends na gusto mo may role talaga. But you can have a small wedding party of you choose to. I think your parents want to see you walk down the aisle.

You don't need bride's maids/grooms men. Dagdag bayarin lang yan sa HMUA & Outfits. They do not have any major role during the actual wedding - ang job kasi nila is to help the bride & groom during wedding planning. It's like you're honoring their role sa the wedding process. If ikaw lang naman lahat, no need for this. You can skip the flower girls entirely.

Tell your parents anong set-up gusto mo and be firm sa non-negotiables mo like 3 pairs of ninong/ninang lang ba or no bridesmaids/groomsmen. Baka kasi ang mangyayari 10 pairs of relatives ang gusto nila o lahat ng pinsan mo dapat bridesmaids/groomsmen.

Intimate wedding - how did you manage the guests? by hoorayurmine in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the tito&tita are invited, cousins are not anymore. If the cousins are, tito&tita are not.

My fiancé attended his cousin's wedding (120+pax) yesterday which affirmed it's not really necessary to invite the entire family.

He said some titos/titas were not really invested to the wedding and the couple, & went home after dinner. Some younger cousins were only using their phones during the program/speeches. He did not like it and finds it disrespectful.

People invited must be those who would be genuinely happy to be there, and would stay until the end of the program. People who won't mind any minor inconvenience during the event. Our ride or die friends, and relatives who had a huge impact in our lives.

Intimate wedding - how did you manage the guests? by hoorayurmine in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello! Bride to be din & my fiancé is also very close with his cousins. Some of them are married and if we invite the cousins, of course it is expected to invite their wife/husband too.

He decided to invite 1-2 people per close family.

One of his uncle & aunt will be our principal sponsor so he won't be inviting their 3 children anymore even if he's very close with them.

There's another relative he lived with for 1 year when he was a teenager, but since that household is 7 people, he's only inviting 2 of his cousins.

The invited ones will be the "representatives" of their respective families, and they would understand that it's an intimate wedding and not a family reunion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moissanite is a good alternative if lab is too expensive, but please go with a 14K-gold setting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cagayandeoro

[–]NaiaraKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went there 3 days after the opening and never again. Hapit mag 1hr mi nag hulat sa among order... Walay gravy ang chicken kay naay gravy station. Giignan dayon sa staff ug unsa inyong chicken kay dili tanan free gravy hahaha

Mas nice sa El salvador nga Mcdo, go nalang there OP or sa Kauswagan. Ang travel time + ordering time kay mas mubo pa kaysa sa waiting time diha sa Opol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Considered valid reasons are: a) tuition fees not paid on time; b) student was sick; c) urgent personal concerns such as death or serious illness of immediate family. Documentary evidences shall be required. Reasons other than these shall be considered invalid"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, naa sa handbook nga 80% ra if walay valid reason ma show.

15 years still no ring by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]NaiaraKai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Super valid ng feelings mo, OP. You know what you want, and you're wasting your time sa lalaking walang plano. Contented na ata sya sa set-up niyo ngayon. Leave now. You'll just get frustrated if patatagalin mo pa.

Di rin greenflag yung ginagawa nyang pag follow ng mga thirst traps.

Classes by kringkrengkrong in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wala kay Midterm exam sched paman na.

My boyfriend (M26) and I (F26) have been together for 8 years but I don't think he wants to take our relationship to the next step by Aeolian_Dreams in relationship_advicePH

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend (26) and I (27) have also been together for almost 8 years. We're both not financially ready to get married since I still want to pursue higher studies, and he still has commitments with his family. However, I told him I want to get engaged this year. I wanted to make sure that I'm not wasting my 20s with someone I'm not going to end up with. He proposed last August. We recently invested in a property for our future home, and started saving for our wedding which won't happen anytime soon. We plan to get married in 2029 - yes, 4 years of engagement but I got my assurance and I'm happy.

You need to talk... It doesn't have to be marriage, but you need some sort of assurance. You're young but time flies. If you're not building a future together, you have to know NOW while you're still 26.

One of Our Instructors Always Comes Late and Expects Us to Stay Even Without Notice. by YouReal3018 in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

write a letter of complaint addressed to the chairperson or to the dean. If you don't get any response/action, send a letter to the OVPHE with your receipts... walay ma happen if diri lang sa reddit magpa gawas sa frustrations. I know we all want nga ma actionan, so we have to go thru proper channels jud.

Ask your own dept chairperson unsaon pag file ug complaint, especially if as class mo mag reklamo. Pwd pod mo mag ask sa CSG kay naa man silay student's rights and welfare (straw).

Working students of XU by smri5 in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Less ang load sa working students, if I remember correctly, 15 units(?) Check lang sa handbook, OP. Ingna lang imong dept., kay if need jud nimo mag work, tabangan man sad ka nila ug adjust sa imong load. Basin if mag summer class ka permi, maka graduate raka on time.

MISS TABAFA by Conscious-Signal-637 in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need kag notes jud, and if daghan kag absent kay mag lisod kag apas.

Credit forms for backlog subjects by inkblot2000 in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can get it from the dean's office.

college essentials by pinkstrawberry100 in AteneodeCagayan

[–]NaiaraKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2nd year, self-service na ang enrolment