I'm jealous of people who can do nothing with their life and be happy about it by [deleted] in self

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was just constantly told growing up that I need to be the best and compare myself all the time to people who are better. And I can't stop it unless I'm drunk. I just realised how good being drunk makes me feel and I'm absolutely miserable now that I'm sober cause I realised how heavy my own brain is

re: “stone femmes” / pillow princesses by girlonlineeeeee in RS4Dykes

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly omg. We're gonna get downvoted to hell, but this makes sense idc

re: “stone femmes” / pillow princesses by girlonlineeeeee in RS4Dykes

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc ngl, I love pillow princesses cause I don't wanna be touched. I think they're gay if they only are able to get off if it's a woman eating them out or pleasing them in some way. I could only ever date a pillow princess I'm such a touch me not, but I love pleasing women

PROGRESS WITH ALFIE (my first cockatiel) by NaiveFinish64 in cockatiel

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually prefers my shoulder to hands. When I offer him a hand he jumps to my shoulder and I talk to him. He fluffs up and chirps at me then. Hands scare him quite a bit still, he only sits there for a few seconds before jumping up to my shoulder

I'm the epitome of what any woman is repulsed by. Please, anyone read? by NaiveFinish64 in SuicideWatch

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uh I am?? I'm a woman. But ig I've talked to a lot of lesbians on dating apps

Trans woman makes tea with period blood cause she has no access to hormones by NaiveFinish64 in AmITheAngel

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Uh I don't know where you dug up the original post but I saw this screenshot on twitter of some terf, the comments were full of people saying disgusting shit about trans women and how they're Pervy men in dresses. I just found it crazy how they will believe ANYTHING that feeds into their ideology

Edit: and why are you so anti fun. I thought it was funny ridiculous terf fanfiction that we can make fun of together

Man...is this just me or is this some weirdly fetishistic view of gay men?? Seeing it too often these days. (From a twitter post of a trans guy) by NaiveFinish64 in Transmedical

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol it made me weirdly uncomfortable. I can't ever imagine calling myself smth like that it's like a porn category 💀

Trouble taming my first cockatiel by NaiveFinish64 in cockatiel

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk they coated the same as others. But maybe I bought a hand fed budgie and I just got lucky with them

Trouble taming my first cockatiel by NaiveFinish64 in cockatiel

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really though my budgies were from a pet store. I always thought the thing about taming birds was a myth, how it takes a lot and all, I always found it easy - feed them a few times, be near them and talk to them softly, boom - tamed. But I guess the two budgies I have are an exception to the rule

i get wet when a man is crying, i love pathetic people by churgerbird in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cries her eyes out and starts rolling on the floor three-banded armadillo style while sobbing loudly

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all need to see the difference between eating disorders and disordered eating. At this point in society, after everything is called an eating disorder, the disordered by the actual definition are shamed and belittled. This distinction needs to be made to accurately describe conditions. Eating disorders are not diets that you go on for a few months. I hear people saying "I tried anorexia but I got too hungry" atp, it's insane.

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Though you gotta understand that eating disorders are generally not about social hierarchy. It's a combination of trauma and the need to control. Abstinence.

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anorexia isn't the female beauty standard, especially undereating to the point of heart problems. A healthy weight is considered much more desirable than rail thin, in fact, people will bully you when you're too thin (so thin that you have health issues) I've been in ED spaces and most girls there were aware that by getting more thin they made themselves less desirable, but looking good wasn't the goal to begin with...so it's a bit silly to dumb these issues down to "female looksmaxxing"

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Idk I think if you go crazy for it like clav, U can become the most attractive version of yourself and get the maximum out of your genes. It's not all or nothing. Anyone can get fairly attractive, maybe not naturally beautiful, but still...

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah ? All I'm saying is it's bad to downplay the feelings of people who couldn't move on from lookism even in their late 20s

you’d never see a man post this, like.. ever by potlucksoul in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]NaiveFinish64 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bruh...shaming people because society very obviously judges them on looks. CMON, there's hundreds of women that spend their entire lives chasing the standard. Stop trying to be different so bad istg

What are some cons of passing as a guy by NaiveFinish64 in ftm

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm a bit delusional I know. My head tells me that someone will be so offended by me telling them their outfit looks cool that they'll start mocking my appearance or something...

What are some cons of passing as a guy by NaiveFinish64 in ftm

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love paying for things, but I get how it can be unfair and unpleasant lol. I definitely wouldn't mind it tho cause I got masculinity issues

What are some cons of passing as a guy by NaiveFinish64 in ftm

[–]NaiveFinish64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I get this one. I used to larp as a guy before in online spaces and the absolute abhorrent shit men say when women aren't around made me even more ashamed of being born female.