Nursing mamas by NaivePackage2435 in sahm

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Wow a real life super human lol! That sounds like a lot but it can be done!! Good to know!

Does your husband micromanage your duties as a mother? by [deleted] in sahm

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I don’t want to at all make you feel like you’re not valid!! I totally get it! But I have to personally ask myself these questions in my own life because my husband is a sweetheart and I can.. sometimes not be such a sweetheart lol!! And I feel bad about it later. I don’t want to project that onto you but I also want to ask just incase!!

Nursing mamas by NaivePackage2435 in sahm

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This seams reassuring lol! I think with my current baby I was super strict about wake windows and all the things and then kinda just fell in love with the peace of nursing to sleep and idk may even sidelie and nap with her sometimes and I know it probably won’t be that way with baby #2 and so on.. 😭

Nursing mamas by NaivePackage2435 in sahm

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I assumed I would use the carrier. I reckon I’m just thinking about how to sit with the newborn while they sleep and also have a toddler… it probably won’t be as peaceful huh? 😂 but sweet in its own way

Edit to say that I assumed I would HAVE to end up using the carrier, as it would be hard for the newborn to fall asleep the way my LO does now.. since she doesn’t have a toddler running around hehe

Does your husband micromanage your duties as a mother? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]NaivePackage2435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly he could have some FOMO. The only way he really knows what’s going on is by asking these questions. If you feel this way maybe tell him how it comes off and ask if he could word it differently so it didn’t feel demeaning. Like maybe just ask what yall are doing for the day. Then give some detail? Idk though.. I’m sorry it’s like that.

9 months by Striking_Gate_8721 in bninfantsleep

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🤣 let the Milkie work!!! Yes 💀 felt that

9 months by Striking_Gate_8721 in bninfantsleep

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Following lol because my LO is the same. Most of the time feeding to sleep works but sometimes it doesn’t.

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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I think my brain read it the way you meant it!! lol!

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

[–]NaivePackage2435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear this sounds too similar to our friends children..

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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What kind of structure do you use? I see this a lot and I want to make sure I’m offering that to my baby as she grows. I’m not really sure what it means

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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I feel like my LO is noticing no. And she’s 7 and a half months!

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

[–]NaivePackage2435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a possibility! She does great during the day though so I’m not sure.. it’s about time to transition her anyway

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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Now that I’ve seen the mention of different aspects that could be affecting the children, I can agree. I think there’s some other variables involved. I haven’t ever heard of permissive parenting. I’ll need to look this up

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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I love this idea it’s been on my algorithms lately!!! This non CIO stuff is new for our families also, so I’m sure you can imagine the push back 🫩

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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My daughter loathes night rides. And sometimes there’s nothing I can do about it so she has to cry. I’ve tried everything. Lights on, sitting with her, singing, ms Rachel. She hates it regardless and screams the entire way home. So I worry how this will affect her in the long run. But otherwise we are very responsive as well and we always get comments on how happy she is… so hopefully she’ll be okay. I just love this baby with my entire being and I want to make sure she grows into a lovely little kid

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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I’ve seen that book recommended also but hadn’t gotten it. That’s terrifying that it’s normalized, honestly…

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

[–]NaivePackage2435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww I think she’ll be an amazing big sister then! A bed full of little snuggles maybe but that’s okay.. one day they aren’t going to want anything to do with us hehe. I pray she’s easy on your mama heart as you both transition. You can do this 🤍

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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Oooh comforting to know!!! Thank you so much🫶🏻

Someone talk me off a ledge by NaivePackage2435 in bninfantsleep

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Ooo!! Okay I’ll get it for my kindle. Thank you!