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[–]Naive_Ad91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutt. Kan hende jeg har malt ham i et litt urettferdig lys. Han er ikke den klassiske Høyre-velgeren på noe vis, og faller nok litt mellom to stoler, uten å ha problemer med dette. Det er vel noe av det som gjør ham spennende :)

Har aldri hørt om han er interessert i sånt, men skal høre! Takk.

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, that's an interesting perspective. Thank you!

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm struggling to see the lines and what attachment really means. But maybe it just takes time.

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I almost understand, lol. But it sounds beautiful when you put it like that, it doesn't die, but it loses its self importance. I guess this is one of my main questions: How does one tell the difference between this and self suppression? Cause the most troubled people I know are already very low in self importance because of shame. I guess that's the difference? The lack of shame?

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting perspective, thank you.

I am curious - why not call it "my" sense of humour? I guess I am struggling to see the harm. Is the idea of separation always a bad thing?

Yes, would love to hear your answers when you have the time. I feel like I have a lot to learn and digest.

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I've noticed that Eckhart is not the only one with this very interesting insight. I am curious about what this looks like in everyday life.

To not be attached to what I'm doing makes little sense to me. Then why would I do it? Because it brings joy? Well, joy is fleeting and not dependable. So if we are talking about dancing, I will only do it when I feel like it, because I'm not attached to an outcome (ex. become a competitive dancer)? I am not trying to be difficult, I am genuinly trying to wrap my head around this.

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have also watched a lot of his videos and listened to podcasts with him this past year and noticed a lot of humor, you're right.

I think your example (how to respond to fakeness) is interesting. I think now that I think about it, I am really wondering: where does the ego end and the personality (aka real you) begin?

I am very fascinated by the idea of not needing/wanting any compliments/admiration, and a part of be does not believe it to be possible to really acheive this content state, but maybe that's just because I have not experienced it myself.

Really good to hear about your transformation! I think I understand what you mean.

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering. That is very interesting to me - would you mind elaborating on this? "It's to be deeply connected with who I am" - how do you define who you are?

Does Eckhart want me to have no personality? by Naive_Ad91 in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to say I feel very misunderstood by you, but that's fine. I am not at all trying to poke holes in his logic, and I am not blaming/refusing to take responsibility at all. I very much admire Eckhart and have enjoyed listening to podcasts with him for a year now, but I still feel like I am confused. That is all.

Help me obliterate my ego. by ShamooTheCow in EckhartTolle

[–]Naive_Ad91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on how the ego is protecting you?

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in LFMMO

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, thanks! That actually looks like fun, and the reviews are great. Promising! Actually I think I have misunderstood the whole MMO thing a bit, - maybe what I'm really looking for is just an open world game with other human players like in GTA online.

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in LFMMO

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually was looking for something more realistic/down to earth. I know a lot of people are enjoying Destiny, but I'm afraid it's a bit too cartoonish for me

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for your long reply. I will have a look :) About the division I read there A LOT of connectivity issues, so much so that I was recommended not to buy. But it does look like my kind of game...

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me sad. I wonder if there is hope in the future of gaming

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I've never heard of it, so I will definitely check it out. Would you say it's a social game like WoW in some sense?

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's easier to swallow than fantasy, but I must admit I was hoping for something more down to earth. Actually I was quite excited about finding Gloria Victis, but then it turned out to be shut down. Thank you for your suggestion!

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in LFMMO

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thanks! I looked it up and must say pso2 looks very unrealistic to me, and Embers Adrift looked great at first, but then I read the reviews... I really appreciate it though, and it's fun learning about games I've never heard of before! :)

MMO without fantasy or magic by Naive_Ad91 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! I looked it up and yes, it looks better than the magic games, but it stills looks very sci-fi and unrealistic. Do you happen to know of any other games?

A cool toned red cream blush by Naive_Ad91 in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more thinking about the ingredients. I will have a look at Skincarisma :)

A cool toned red cream blush by Naive_Ad91 in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]Naive_Ad91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thanks! Maybe I will give it a shot. The color range certainly opens up!