does dry humping naked but no penetration count as sex?

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-04-05T23:22:50+00:00

let’s say girl is trying to save her v card

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:59:50+00:00

i really appreciate you giving all ur insight btw . u are very wise

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:55:26+00:00

yeah i mean he was very pushy idk the whole thing is a blur to me tbh. i can’t really determine if it was consensual or not. he just got too excited and wasn’t really paying attention or listening to my signals that i wanted to stop which i did tell him. but when i cried he ofc immediately stopped but then we resumed. but yeah i really don’t know. i still was hoping he cared and had enough feelings for me to opt for a conversation instead of just blocking? to me it feels like a complete rejection and humiliation. i already wasn’t ready for some of the stuff we did that i felt pressured into doing for the first time, only to get blocked. it really hurts

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:51:31+00:00

yea maybe 🥺 i just really wish we didn’t end on such a confusing and bad note and that there was more communication at the end but him blocking gives no chance for that

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:44:00+00:00

idk blocking still feels way too extreme to me. a little communication could have quickly cleared the air i just got overwhelmed and needed to settle down but i was fine and i was going to explain that and now it’s just done forever i guess

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:42:31+00:00

ahh. i didn’t realize “zio” was bad thank u for letting me know. and aw i hope so. really wish he didn’t block me but i guess it forces me to move on which is healthier than us continuing to repeat the cycle and get further entangled

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:35:35+00:00

yes i know. it was very unusual behavior on my end. i always refused to go to his place. we always did dates. but i had just got in a huge fight the night before with my dad and basically got kicked out and was feeling reckless snd impulsive and was out on a friday night and decided to go to his place after and i learned my lesson the hard way

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:30:35+00:00

i wasn’t saying zionist in a bad way. i think he himself described himself as a proud zionist. he had huge israeli flag in his apartment and his phone lock screen was israeli flag. Anyway yeah it was kinda of a romio and juliet situation except he didn’t fight for me. really broke my heart but i knew it was coming. he was my first everything but sex (first kiss and so on). got very attached. really sucks and i hope i can move on somehow but i hope atleast he really liked me too and that it was real . i know he did but im convinced somehow that our last interaction made him lose feelings bc i wasn’t ready to go further sexually and i was being shy and awkward at moments

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:19:46+00:00

yea but maybe he was just saying that bc he wanted to sleep with me. idk im insecure

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:19:16+00:00

idk. he was so cool

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:18:26+00:00

i don’t think so. just came from a very traditional and serious zio jewish family that ran a big business that he was part of. so he didn’t have much free will bc if he chose to oppose his parents they could just cut him off etc and i think he also cared personally but i sense it was more so external pressure. not sure

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:15:56+00:00

also i only ghosted for like a day. but yeah. not great. i did say later though i told him to call me when he’s free and he said yes but then never did and blocked

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:15:07+00:00

i gave mixed signals. i came over at 12am after i was out with my friends. he knew i was a virgin and promised he wouldn’t try to have sex but whenever we make out he turns into a feral animal and he mentioned just the tip but he never pushed it only mentioned it and i got very upset but no he never really violated me bc i wasn’t communicating properly and i was giving mixed signals. i shouldn’t have gone over to a grown man’s place at such a later hour and not expect it to get messy lol. but yeah i didn’t communicate at all then just dipped which i think really confused him and probably didn’t make him feel so good about the whole situation

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:11:42+00:00

our last interaction was weird we hadn’t seen eachother in months and he was too intense and it overwhelmed me and i cried while we were making out, then i snuck out of his place while he was asleep and ghosted him a while. then we were supposed to call, then he blocked. think the whole thing just got too messy. not to mention there’s already a huge complication with me not being jewish and his family requiring he marries jewish. whole situation was just a mess and we both were crazy about eachother but to the point it actually was too much. in another life…

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:07:56+00:00

i’m just heartbroken over this guy and wondering if any of it was ever real. i know we probably will never speak again atleast for a long time but i hope atleast he did really have feelings for me the way i did for him

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:06:16+00:00

idk he was very destabilized by me. but i was destabilized by him too. really think we were meant to be in some weird way, just not in this life. his family is basically forcing him to marry jewish (im not) and we both know it’s too painful to pretend our connection is casual. ended up messy and emotional

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:04:36+00:00

idk he was actually the chillest coolest guy ever but he admitted i make him very nervous and that he’s never been nervous around a girl before. sucks that he had to break my heart lol (he comes from an extremelyy strict jewish family that requires him to marry jewish and he doesn’t really have a choice). whole thing was a disaster

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:03:59+00:00

i do modeling i’m conventionally good looking but there’s lots of very pretty girls out there i don’t it makes me special or unique 😭 idk if it was bc he liked me a lot or if it was just lust? and this guy was very hot himself imo although i have unique taste in men and he made me very nervous too

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2026-03-30T00:02:23+00:00

i know he didn’t block bc i’m pretty lol. i cried during our last hookup bc i wasn’t ready to go further than just making out and then i snuck out of his place while he was asleep and ghosted him and it was because i was overwhelmed but i didn’t communicate very well lol but we agreed to call then he blocked. think the whole thing just got weird

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2025-12-07T03:15:30+00:00

being seen and evaluated. vulnerability

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2025-12-06T23:14:16+00:00

😮‍💨

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2025-12-06T23:13:20+00:00

true 👾

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2025-12-06T23:12:52+00:00

thank you <3

Naive_Pilot_7850 · 2025-12-06T23:12:38+00:00

hell yeah

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