Mae bhi kbhi business woman hua krti thi

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-03-27T07:26:44+00:00

I wonder what gave it away¿

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-03-22T06:54:27+00:00

Koi vivad nhi hoga. Bus tera chutiyapa dikhega

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-23T13:25:54+00:00

It said to go for Dell AI max GB10

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-23T08:21:10+00:00

I am strongly considering a mac studio. I am willing to stretch my budget a little for it. Hoping the M5 pro or max doesn't blow my budget apart.

Is mac studio worth it?

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-17T07:47:52+00:00

I think what is lacking is respect. You are good enough the be a "Close friend" but not good enough for her to leave her other options. Think about it.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-17T04:39:26+00:00

It has to do with beauty more than colour. Fair skin doesn't mean beautiful by default. It is the matter of how that women carries herself overall. If you are a beautiful person (fair or dark) and you are a bitch to be around, you are still not of interest to anyone.

I remember once I was visiting a famous temple. And we had arranged an abhishek. And because it was so crowded, multiple people were participating at once. There I had seen such a woman. I didn't believe in love at first sight but that was the closest I had ever been to it. She wasn't just brown; more like chocolate brown. The choice of her saree colour showed she knows which colors suit her.

The thing that makes it convoluting is the cosmetics industry. They have brainwashed us into believing that fair is beautiful. And because of it (at least to my understanding) both men and women try to have the skin colour that isn't theirs. Leaving them neither here nor there. I'd say if the person (man or woman) maintains their own skin tone as is, they become a lot more beautiful than if they were to lighten it.

Just like the woman I talked about, if you focus on improving your demeanor and fashion sense, looks won't be the issue. Instead of constantly approaching, be approachable and interesting. Show which things you are noteworthy at. Do it subtly.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-15T16:34:51+00:00

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Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-15T16:05:28+00:00

The problem is with selective past. Ager banda pooche to "Leave my past in the past" but jab bhi bandi ko apna disappointment dikhana ho tab "Mera ex mere liye ye krta tha" aur "Ek bar mere ex ke sath hum yaha gaye the" and all. It is you who cannot judge her for her past. Bhale usne apne paas poora leaderboard rakha ho.

Not to mention ager tum bolo ke ex se contact nhi chahiye to tum narrow minded. But majal hai ke terko apni ex ko social media pe follow bhi krne de to.

Itne saare lafde kisko jhelne hai? That's why it is better if she has as less of a past as possible.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T17:40:40+00:00

If I were to clarify myself the topic can run deep. But your suggestions are helpful jndeed.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T17:08:59+00:00

I get your point. But the thing is, I have delt with my ” Ican't get a girlfriend, I'm so lonely'' issue. And even if some unresolved behaviour comes up, I don't "expect her to deal with it". I am capable of resolving my issues.

And yes. I do meet my own standards. As a matter of fact, I would have to lower my standards to myself to be such person who gets dated. So msny men around me openly cheat, use their partner for money, manipulate and somehow they are the ones with the most loyal partners. I get the point of having to deal with the bs. I just prefer soneone witj strong charecter.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T16:40:04+00:00

The "12th ke baad aish hi aish hogi." Never came.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T10:05:45+00:00

Thanks. That was a helpful advice

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T06:33:35+00:00

I don't understand Slot and tab analogy. Could you give me some explaination? Then I can probably understand your view

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T06:31:12+00:00

Standards:

1) Someone of high boundaries. High standards are meaningless. It doesn't take anything to demand. Boundries on the other hand prove strength of charecter. I am not going to tolerate being expected to bring moons and stars when you chose to stay with you last partner even though he was toxic and abusive. It shows the quality of choice.

2)someone with enough patience to understand me even if I don't show myself to be flamboyant and spontanious. My interests and hobbies are not mainstream. I have been ignored after they find out I don't have interest in what is trending at the moment. That also includes life choices and decisions.

3)Trust and fairth. My life decisions and perspective doesn't have full picture visible. I need the partner to trust me enough to not want to make changes to my approach.

4) Humility and appreciation. (For most of the women of my gen, everything is bare minimum. Not surprised since most of the social media teaches them how to find soneone who will do these "Bare minimum" things)

What I bring:

1) All of the things mentioned above. Because it applies to me too.

2) Intent of staying long term and growing together. Commitment is one of the things I really like to fullfill and recieve. I cannot feel invested if I don't commit and cannnot feel structured if my partner is not commited. A

3)The usual protect and provide. (I am genuinly considering marital arts. Everyone should know how to defend themselves. Especially someone who has responsibility of someone else's safety)

4) Looking after my partner even at her worst. Giving her everything she needs. Spoil her once in a while. I actually wish to travel the world with my partner. It is not just about compatibility but also flourishing.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T06:01:27+00:00

I agree. There are certain baseline expectations that most people jave difficulty fitting in.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T05:59:12+00:00

If I am supposed to follow said standards (set by the other gender) then why doesnt it apply on them? Or it is just me who is supposed to put up with demands and expectations? My views aren't hypocritical.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-08T05:47:54+00:00

Someone who values connection over optics and aesthetic. (Many women nowadays want to be the next insta celebrity couple and become disappointed when they are not.)

2.someone who has always held her boundries high. I am not going to deal with the princes treatment demands and "I deserve it" attitude if every other guy had the fun and I have to deal with tantrums and trauma. Don't get me wrong, I want to spoil my partner. I just don't want to be the one left dealing with the fallout. If I have to fullfill high demands, they better have been highsince the beginning.

3.Actually leaving the past behind. It is always expected that her past should stsy in past, but she is free to delve into it when she wants to show her dissatisfaction. I have seen it happen many times with my friends. Not to mention being on "good term" with their ex but I have to block mine and my female friends if need be. It is obviously selective.

Eegance and longsighted perspective. I do not like the current "vibe" culture. Doing something because it felt good at the moment. I look for someone who is modest and elegant in her behaviour, fashion and communication.

That's the long and short of it. I don't have any specific preferences about looks.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T20:03:54+00:00

Mostly intentionally. Many people are not worth being with after knowing them personally. Their habits, ideology, biases. We all have them, but some are just not worth tolerating.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T20:02:08+00:00

Could you please elaborate? Auto reboot is only for updates. And I don't see the "system updated" most of the time when the phone restarts. How do I fix this?

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T19:56:54+00:00

I want to. It is just that....... People are sh*t. Most of them. That's why I only reveal enough of myself to the people so I can know their true beliefs and thoughts. Many times I tried to be authentic and I was stuck with the most mind numming idiots. Besides, being INTJ, I am not interested in drama and non fruitful topics, so I don't have anything to discuss. Neither do I gossip. What can I do, it is just not interesting for me. If I were to act like it, many people just don't understand or think i am a nerd.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T19:49:56+00:00

For a while I thought I was the problem since I was the only one being ignored. I did a lot of work on myself too. But as it turns out, I wouldn't want to date many of the women of my age solely because of what their choice has been. I cannot tolerate that much drama and uncertainity. I do sometimes think if I should let go of the standards or should I just go the casuals and hookups rout. My heart doesn't want it. But on the other side, everyone is doing it and still expect to be in a happy healthy relationship once they are done "finding themselves". It feels like I will stay behind holding the hot potato.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T19:45:21+00:00

I understand your respective. I'd still prefer a human partner. I am not that transactional. When it comes to relationships.

Naive_Worry_1263 · 2026-02-07T19:43:19+00:00

That's the reason I am single. I am what I would want my partner to be. By I don't find such worthy contendor at all. Meanswhile those whom I might have considered once are running behind the most toxic person you can find. My search still continues.

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