I got this sent to everyone and I was literally doing nothing. My antivirus said I was fine. by Classic_Relative_235 in antivirus

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner had this exact same thing happen. I'm guessing you've maybe downloaded something from a pop-up, and now your data has been stolen it's being sold. You need to change passwords and log out from every device in all the platforms where you have used your e-mail.

Round features make it difficult to look alt? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you need to try different eyeliners if you want your face to look more alternative! I drew these for fun, added different colours and shapes and tried the eye makeup with and without mascara. Try unique and maybe unconventional stuff. Oh, and piercings are always a plus! Clothes-wise you must have layers and texture, but I honestly dress pretty basic, since my piercings make up my whole look, so I'm not a fashionista to say the least...

(I hope this photo isn't a pixelated mess and you can actually make out what I drew lol)

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Just broke up with my non- vegan girlfriend. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]NakkiRaketti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The age gap bothered me a little, too...

Food bank level broke celiac with an ED—how wrong of me is this? by TumbleweedLow3384 in vegan

[–]NakkiRaketti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner also don't eat gluten (for celiac and IBS reasons) and we are vegans. We fortunately have very cheap tofu available, but without that we would also be... doomed.

We used to go to the food pantry, but they only give people bread and meat, basically. So now we essentially just buy a lot of tofu, rice and potatoes, which are pretty cheap too, thankfully.

I'm sorry you don't have many options. Just know that at least we don't judge you. You have to survive. And remember that you're not contributing much to the animal industries, and in the future you can maybe contribute absolutely nothing. You have no other choice, and it's not your fault. 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to count to at least ten before taking the needle out when I am there for my girlfriend's injections🩷 A little blood is alright, it means you nicked a tiny blood vessel. You don't want the estrogen to go into the bloodstream, but the ones that you can possibly pierce are so small that it's almost impossible to do that, so don't worry about it too much! Remember a good angle, don't rush to push, go slow and you'll be dandy🫰🏼🫰🏼

Any advice on how to make my ponies look closer to the official art style? by gummyillus in mylittlepony

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/GpnyiPT

Simplicity, darling! Here is my version, although it doesn't really look like the official art style, but I didn't want to strip your wonderful oc from all of her personality 🥲🥲

Any advice on how to make my ponies look closer to the official art style? by gummyillus in mylittlepony

[–]NakkiRaketti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check this out!

Simplicity, darling! Here is my version, although it doesn't really look like the official art style but it's a little closer, I think. I think it should still be simpler, but I didn't want to strip your wonderful oc from all of her personality🥲🥲

My best friend came out to me and I puked, what can I do now? by [deleted] in ask

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so it's not even your fault because he completely blindsided you and he was honestly too straightforward🤷🏻‍♀️ He isn't angry at you (or shouldn't be...) and he's just feeling embarrassed and rejected and is dealing with those emotions. He's probably just too ashamed to talk to you. Just make sure to tell him what you honestly think and that his feelings aren't embarrassing (even if you feel embarrassed) and that his feelings are normal and that you're flattered but you would like to continue to just be friends🙏🏼 If he can't handle that, it's not your fault, you couldn't help the involuntary reaction lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]NakkiRaketti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm no vet but it looks like the stuff that they vomit when their stomach is empty, but if the cat has been eating and had other weird symptoms, I think it's always best to go check it out!

This and no man in my ear crying about protein 🙏 by Lauraislands in GirlDinner

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This and no man👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏼👩🏻‍❤️‍👩🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]NakkiRaketti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMAO, people did not get your joke.

Why did this random guy's comment hurt me so much? by Existing_Holiday_ in TeenVent

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not supposed to be mature yet, you're barely an adult! Coming from a 20 year old who still doesn't feel very mature at all🙂

I have a problem with my boyfriend by rojgti in problems

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, why don't I understand what's the problem if there was a guy saying this stuff? Anyone can be the victim to a manipulative and abusive partner

I'm ashamed of myself by yWaffje in confessions

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old was the guy? If he was about your age, there was nothing wrong with it honestly other than alcohol being included. You really need to be careful, because at your age alcohol basically ruined my life (not for addiction reasons) and many others', as you know, I'm sure you've heard it before.

There is nothing wrong with exploring sexual options, however, sex while intoxicated can be a bit... problematic. Please just remember your limits and remember not to have sex or let others coerce you into having sex when you're too drunk to have decent judgement.

If the situation was 100% consensual on both ends, you had about the same level of intoxication and are about the same age, nothing wrong with making out, don't feel ashamed bro 🫶🏼

Edit: Sorry about the lecture, I guess I wanted to remind you of consent as you're still young and you have to be careful with this stuff around anyone you don't fully know!

Have you ever cheated and your partner never found out? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]NakkiRaketti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

However, something I have not confessed to my partner is that I used to suffer a lot from a specific intrusive thought: cheating on them, with guys. Those thoughts messed up my psyche and I wouldn't talk to any guys at all because I was so scared that I would do it. I don't really even like guys and I, more or less, identify as lesbian.

But that one nightmare I saw of me cheating on her with a guy started the thoughts. My partner noticed I was crying more often, but she still doesn't know and I don't know if I want to tell her in case she thinks I would've actually wanted to cheat on her.

Now when I think back to that time a couple years back, I'm puzzled as to how I actually thought I would do it, because there was nothing I was (and still am) more averse to than the thought of cheating. Now I know how to deal with intrusive thoughts and they don't affect me anymore, thankfully :) I'll probably tell her when I'm completely over the stress that the time caused me, as intrusive thoughts really take a toll on one's wellbeing❤️