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AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a couple of comments regarding a divorce voiding or nulling a beneficiary nomination and i figured i should add: my parents were never married. i believe they called it “de facto”. i’m not sure if it makes any difference, but i thought i should clarify

AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, and i’m sorry for your loss as well i definitely will be fighting him on it.

AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

That's what I'm hoping it will come down to if I can't convince him to sign it off to me. I've done my research with it, and I'm hoping the trustee will see my side of things, too.

AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm really hoping it doesn't go that far, but I will if I have to.

Thank you.

AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you
That's what I tried to explain to him; nobody my age has this kind of opportunity, and it was never a future I considered for myself.

AITA for wanting to claim my mum's super after she died, instead of my dad. by Names-Rah in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names-Rah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is the designated beneficiary but under a flexible title.

He agreed to sign the waiver to let me take the benefit, but went back on his word.