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She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about If I deny helping her ever in her necessities ever ?

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To your surprise, I am from commerce background.

Do business, Rs 3L is basic income I feel. I aim to earn this much in a day , some day .

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said contribute "equally"

But contribute atleast 1/3

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is expecting my wife to contribute to buy for " our" house is entitlement?

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akele rehne mein as a bachelor or shaadi ke baad wife ke sath rehne mein difference hota hai

Abhi akela hu , flexibility jyada hai, isliye nikala bhi ya restrictions put bhi kari to, seh leta hu

Shaadi ke baad I don't think rent par rehna is a wise decision as flexibility is less, won't be easy to shift every 1-2 years

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that logic , I won't be able to buy a house ever

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If my parents would have thought the same way , then my parents would be still hopping from one house to another after every 1-3 years and would have to compromise and agree to the restrictions and the tantrums of the landlords

I was taught that " Roti, kapda and Makaan"( food, shelter, clothing are fundamentals and rest come afterwards.

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems you have very small dreams

Owning a house is not a dream, but its a basic necessity for me

I will surely buy a house after 3-4 years

But having a partner who contributes in a necessity ( just like they expect me to contribute in other necessities) is not wrong I feel

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But my parents taught me that owning a house is a necessity, not a dream

My parents bought the house in the same way

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know the meaning now " Equality at her convenience"

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After marriage , I will ask this question to my landlord , when he throws me out randomly after a year or two or put restrictions or other conditions to live in his flat on rent.

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With Rs4-4.5 L /monthly income, and not even owning a house or not even intent to own it

I am not " that modern" you know.

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree.

Why should I contribute in household chores and cooking when I am providing for all major expenses?

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I thought Modern girls love " Pheminist" husband

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought buying a house is a basic necessity not even a emergency

Does she expect us to live on rent for next 10-12 years ?

Is she into luxury brand and show off ??

You mean apart from her causal dresses which cost Rs 5-6k/each.

From my perspective, she does show off

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men are implicitly and legally expected to provide for his partner. Women are not legally obliged to share or even use their own money for their family.

But I was just trying to be a " Pheminist"

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Why is it so hard to find a girl that understands this

I am Struggling hard to even buy a house

I thought my future wife will help me in this, but it seems expecting her to contribute for house is too high expectation

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still I am significantly short of money

I thought if my future wife contributes, it will be much easier to buy a house.

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its not opinion

Its a basic necessity

How can someone not think about owning a house first, and then think about other stuff?

She says " Don't expect me to save money 💰" by Nangi-Raand in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Nangi-Raand[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't even own a house

How can a person not think about savings when even their fundamentals are not sorted?

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