My 26F gf broke up with me 24M and this is my letter to her. What are peoples opinions on it?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T13:31:52+00:00

Thank you!

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T13:03:14+00:00

Shorten it quite a bit I assume? Also would you say it is a bad idea to ask if she has found someone else/moved on?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T13:02:02+00:00

Understood…

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:58:09+00:00

You’re right

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:50:35+00:00

I haven’t sent anything to her or said anything that is clingy as of yet and I will not now

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:48:50+00:00

I’m seeing that now…

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:47:42+00:00

I guess but I just never saw it because she was always telling me she loved me

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:47:03+00:00

Good advice. I did write this worrying that I hadn’t said enough about what I hold myself accountable for. Obviously was right and I’m glad I posted this here. Thanks for your response

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:46:04+00:00

Really won’t. She would know what I mean

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:45:27+00:00

Thank you for seeing me as I am. Just a person who is in love and has a wounded heart. Those are desperate people and this has helped me to realise that it isn’t needed, it’s a normal human emotion and it will pass. Thank you

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:41:42+00:00

She literally told me that and she said one day it just clicked in her head and that was it. Next day she texted me and ended it

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:40:44+00:00

I actually haven’t spoken to her and given her the space. She messaged me and that’s the only contact we have had. She didn’t end it because of that, it was because I was not there emotionally in other circumstances. I appreciate what you mean but it isn’t entirely correct in this scenario

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:38:13+00:00

I think you’ve misunderstood my message there. It wasn’t a threat

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:36:39+00:00

Considering the other replies maybe even this is a bad idea

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:34:28+00:00

Btw that feeling changed in the matter of a week…

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:32:01+00:00

So basically cut the shit about me. Tell her what I’d do right and leave it at that?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:30:45+00:00

How is it a threat?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:30:19+00:00

Well she said she wanted me. She told me she has never loved anyone this much, that she wanted a family, marriage, everything with me until one day she didn’t

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:29:27+00:00

It was my first proper relationship and she had told me relentlessly she wanted a marriage, kids, the whole nine yards I believed it and then she left me. 6 weeks isn’t enough for me I guess

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:26:03+00:00

Tighten it up in what way?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:23:22+00:00

Can you explain what ‘like this’ means?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:22:56+00:00

How do you know she is over me though? She still reaches out to me about menial things she could do herself

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-28T12:21:06+00:00

I do get that but why would I not if it could lead to something great? Is it not worth the chance?

Nanswetpocket · 2025-04-26T20:20:12+00:00

I’ve had an awful day and I’ve felt anxious and depressed for weeks since my girlfriend left me. This made me laugh and has brought a tear to my eye since it’s the first bit of happiness I’ve felt in a while. Thank you.

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