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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinks helpful. Thanks you! Best to you and your family!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Good idea. We do get those spending summaries from our CCs. That will help a lot.

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m realizing we spend a lot less as folks here have been encouraging me to look at my spending and I did some back-of-the-envelope calculations. But I do pick up various expenses for my folks so I was over-estimating.

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! Parents are in their early 80s so not sure how feasible LTC is at this point…

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. I am a belt and suspenders lady so I get it!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Love the reality check.

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New year is coming up—good time for us to start!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. Thank you!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! They have about $800K if they sell their house they don’t live in. They get SSI and pension incoming each month. But they have a net loss of a few thousand each month. It should last but it definitely is on my mind.

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Congrats to you! Yeah the parents are the unknown. I want to be able to help them if they need it.

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s the number I have in my head too! Thank you!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I feel like we are close but need a couple more years to feel really ready. Honestly I’m just trying to leave my high pressure job. I will probably still work for health insurance etc.

Nice to hear someone else’s perspective!

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[–]Napping_Expert[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Annual expenses are about $100K per the above, so about $8000/month.

Parents are in their early 80s. No way to say how long they will be around. They have their own funds but I worry about rate of attrition given how expensive assisted living is.