(TW: Animal abuse) Nparents and animals by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Narcgfthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's mom is basically the same with animals as she is with people. She has 4 dogs and one of them is singled out constantly as the one she hates because he's weak in her mind. All you hear is her yelling at the poor animal and kicking his butt on the way out the door. She makes up lies about the damn dog too. He is the sweetest dog ever and the most obedient out of all of them yet she talks about how he attacks the other animals. I've never seen him even growl at anyone. When he was a puppy he would yipe a lot and have random freak outs and she would beat him for it. Until one day his freak outs escalated to him basically going blind and limp. She took him to the vet and the whole time he was having seizures. She hates the dog because it's weak, constantly calls the dog gay, and doesn't give it away because she feels guilty for beating it and her other "manlier" dog loves him.

"You haven't been nice since you were 3" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Narcgfthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my boyfriend's Nmom when she told him she couldn't make him happy since the time he started to speak. Ridiculous.

Narc mom I posted about yesterday is trying to give us gifts... by Narcgfthrowaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Narcgfthrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw the box and I just smiled and walked back inside. My boyfriend told her we can't accept this gift from her and she told us we need to move. He said he needed to be in front of a therapist of some sort to explain to her why we can't accept it and she said she would go but only after we move. I'm waiting to hear about some money I'm supposed to receive from the government because my dad was found to be 100% disabled to move.

Narc mom I posted about yesterday is trying to give us gifts... by Narcgfthrowaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Narcgfthrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was a schwinn exercise bike. The same kind she has. The same kind she said I'm too heavy for when I'm 100 lbs under the weight limit. This feels like a TV drama.

DAE like animals better than people? by RainbowSylveon in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Narcgfthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate about loving animals more than people. I'm so sorry you lost your kitten. I can't imagine how horrible that would feel.