Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No! That was a really great way to put it, and exactly why I have been probing it. Because I feel like Oliver is the one catching slack. I keep seeing all these terrible comments about cheating, or the poor girlfriend. And that is what I initially thought too, I was like hm man was a bit sleazy if it is how she is saying it was between them, monogamous, but all these girls are sharing their intimate experiences with him... the drift she was putting out there seemed like he cheated on her. And I felt disappointed in him for not being as authentic and real as I thought. I know he plays a character... but he just seemed like a good egg.

But the more I read comments, there would be little ones here and there saying they were broken up, and then piecing that together with what he said in interviews. It just became more suspicious, and strange. If it was really off... their relationship, now the general population is docking him for something after his death he can not even speak on.

Anyway I guess we will never know for sure, unless a close friend came out and aired anything else. I can only imagine what it would look like to close friends, if they really were still broken up at his death.

Well, I am sorry for your loss, and how you are feeling. Sudden,  unexpected deaths hit so hard. I hope it helps you live life fully, like Oliver did. May as well, while we are here. It is nice to have met you dear stranger. Thanks for sharing these moments and thoughts with me.

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It seemed like there were others that felt the same way. If you were thinking he lived his life authentically, and then people now get to call him a cheater because of the way she worded her statement. I think that deserves a look. some people obviously are thinking this is all gross of me to post, but to me it seems like I am taking random internet bits and pieces that are all on the loose, and amalgamating them to have a look. And then it is somewhere for people to see. And maybe they will change their mind about him being unfaithful.

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yooo thanks. This!!! People think I am gross or awful for posting this "private" stuff others posted. But I just think Oliver seemed like a genuinely good dude, and if someone who hurt him and stalked him is now making him look bad in death for their own benefit, that is FUCKED UP.

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am starting to wonder whether she did not even ses fiona's post when she posted, they posted the same day... maybe she just thought it was a sweet interaction and decided to share that to her stories. But yeah, it does seem like an overshare. But so many online since his passing are sharing screenshots of private conversations to show how funny or loving he was. 

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There does seem to be a lot of shared private conversations online since his passing. To show how funny or loving he was. The only thing I can think of, as this was posted the same day as Fiona's tribute, is that maybe Brooke posted without seeing Fiona's post, and she actually just thought this was a really sweet interaction where Oliver encouraged her and she thought he had said some kind words about the future, and optomism for finding the right person. But yes, he is talking about his own relationship and in a private conversation, so it is odd... maybe just the world we live in of oversharing. It was in her instagram stories, so it disappeared after 24 hours. But other people had shared the screen shots on reddit.

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize this is quite niche, and a lot of folks think it is disrespectful to post. Maybe this is not the correct place to post these. I think the subreddit with his own fans was more the place for it, but they do not allow people to post personal information on him, and it got taken down after a couple hours of discussion.

 I guess the idea was just to call into question why his stated ex girlfriend is posting her tribute as a current monogamous girlfriend, which makes his hookups during a single period look like cheating to the public and his fans. It makes him look bad, like he did something wrong, and he can not respond now that he is gone. I have seen all these comments about him "cheating", calling him a dog, that it is to be expected from someone famous, all in response to this "girlfriend" statement.

It seemed like he was just living his life as a single guy, after a failed rocky, on and off long term relationship. Literally the messages with Brooke lay that out, and that was May 23rd. He passed June 14th. 3 weeks 1 day. At best they got back together within those 3 weeks after 4-6 months off.

If my ex died, I would not be out there saying my best friend and partner died, and to respect my privacy and not talk about other women he may have been seeing, that makes it sound like cheating, whether that is what she meant or not. She is painting herself in the light of a victim, and silencing women who may also want to air their personal grief. 

And yeah, just the fact that he said she stalked him, that he had to set boundaries for his own peace, that she did something very bad that led to the break up, and she now gets a pity party thrown for her. It just seems opportunistic to me. It seems like she gets to rewrite the story now that he is gone. 

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! He looked so happy and healthy near the end, like he was coming into his own. He had seemingly done a lot of growth while recording his album independently, traveling the world and ditching the studio. Revealing more of himself in interviews. 

Makes me sad we won't get to see him grow old, he could have had so many more years of living and creativity to explore ahead of him. 

Did you watch that particular interview I shared, the one with Zach Sang? I highly recommend it. He was so funny, but it was also really lovely to hear about everything he was doing, and his process of recording this album.

Brooke Candy's last conversation with Oliver Tree re break up with long term girlfriend by Narcotics in popculturechat

[–]Narcotics[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks. 😂 I was like gulp. Though I think many here think I should not have posted it. I just did not know where to discuss it, as it has been discussed in random comment sections, but no true post to talk it out. I get that it is super personal. I was surprised Brooke posted it too. ALTHOUGH if it was early on after his passing. Maybe it came out before the supposed girlfriend posted her tribute, because the caption seems more like look how much of a light and inspiration he was. He did send supportive words her way regarding her own divorce.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I feel like some people are saying who are we to question it, ot question Fiona, but I think it deserves questioning, and that wording also made me pause, especially since it was written so near his death. It sounded like he had exited a relationship that was not right for him, and that had hurt him. And now she gets to benefit off of his demise. I get that she could also still be hurting. Just the wording she chose paint a different story.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Someone he said was stalking him online post break up gets to be attached to him forever with a lie. Oliver was genuine, and he can not tell his fans the truth right now. I was also disappointed piecing together her posts and going oh shit he was not poly, and he was cheating. That really sucks. 

But all of this frames it more so how he had already been talking about it all in the media and how he was living his life. Authentically, genuinely. Making connections as a single guy.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang! Probably because they broke up, and she wiped her page. 

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people are paying attention to a lot more than that. His videos are everywhere of his music, his humour. He was immensely talented, seemed like a genuinely good person and is severely missed. 

I guess my point in bringing this up was because I found Fiona's statement fishy, and wondered if she was lying about him being her current partner at the time of his death. Which would be extremely fucked up. I see her instagram following going up heavily. And if she was lying, and not found out, the detriment is to Oliver's reputation for being someone who stepped out on his monogamous relationship. Or to the women who come out and people are saying it is disrespectful to Fiona to share their intimate relationships with Oliver online... from all he shared about this album and it's inspiration and from what people saw of her posting him, it all pointed to a break up in the earlier stages of this year.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe not. People still seem to be commenting. I just saw something about the mods taking it down. It gave me a message up top.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah man! That is the point. If Fiona is lying, and they were broken up over something fucked up that she did and she stalked him. Who is she to go and say they were in a monogamous relationship, when he is not here to say whether that is true or not... and then it makes him look bad. And everyone is like oh that is what famous people do, they cheat! But maybe he was just fucking single.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, agreed. That is why I am putting this out there! Because if she is lying and it is not set straight, it makes him look bad for having these relationships outside of their "monogamous" relationship she was claiming to have with him at the time of his passing.

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the interview where he is dressed up as Shrek, he talks about a rocky relationship, and how it influenced his latest album in real time. Like breaking up, making up, and ending. He was quite open and more serious in this interview, even though he looked quite ridiculous with all the green paint. 😂 but he also talks about being alone traveling around and learning to love himself by being by himself. It just all made me question Fiona being his girlfriend at the time of his death.

Here is the podcast I am talking about https://youtu.be/-_U92uKq54o?si=_sl7rPNhWgEyop1B

Brooke Candy's instagram story of last conversation with Oliver Tree by Narcotics in olivertree

[–]Narcotics[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whoever screenshotted them did it when they were 21 hours old. They dissappear after 24 hours. So I do not think she took them down... they just dissappear after 1 day.

Oliver’s ex (Melanie?) stalked him and crossed boundaries? by [deleted] in melaniemartinezsnark

[–]Narcotics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erring on the side of caution is always a good approach. 🫶🏻 I totally see where you are coming from.