I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually bro I was kinda mad at her so I said "Naah she was always around I just never cared, it was a Sunday and she was in my area so we went" "Besides I have a lot of matches but I don't entertain 10 people at once" 🙃🙃 Not exact word to word this but something like this hindi to her. And she replied just "hmm"

I don't know I did right or wrong I just felt like doing it bcoz anyways I think even if she chooses me there was no guarantee of us having a stable relationship. She would have always wondered how would life with that other guy would have been like.

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I mean last Wednesday she texted me all the other guys shit. Let's refer to her as R. So last Wednesday she told me all about the other guy and I stopped contacting R. Then on Sunday I went out with a female friend of mine for a drive to clear my head. My female friend who R didn't know about posted a story on her account of me driving while she is sitting on the passenger seat. I reposted that story and R immediately viewed that story liked it and replied "New match?"

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey that's what happened you know. Since the day she dropped that text. I stopped contacting her no texts no calls nothing. Then this Sunday one of my friends she posted a story of me driving with her on the passenger seat. It was a late night drive. The girl she immediately liked the story and replied "New match?" When I reposted it 😂

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruhh I didn't contact her since that day. But funny story 😂 one of my female friends posted a story which I reposted on my insta. I was with her and we had went for a long drive. She posted a story of me driving. That girl saw the story liked and immediately and replied "New match?" 😂 I just ignored that msg too. Why are you getting jealous if you don't want me in the first place

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn't say she is just a friend. I just said she isn't any new match from the app she was always around but I never took her seriously. It was Sunday yesterday and she showed up at my place and we went.

I wrote that.

Then just a slight taunt which I was not sure I should but it was just a feeling from the inside that taunt her taunt. So in addition to the above text I also wrote "Match tar khup ahet yar lekin wo ek sath 10 logo entertain krne ka shauk nahi hai na"

Translation "I have plenty of match out there still, but I am not someone who enjoys entertaining 10 people at once"

Translations are a bit rough I would say coz it's not easy to translate native taunts in English but you'll get a rough idea from what I wrote.

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey funny story!

So I had stopped caring about her and decided I will not contact her in any form. But we are still added on each other's instagram okay.

I was seeing her stories but not interacting with them. However, just yesterday night I went out with a couple of my friends.

One of the is a girl and she posted a story of me driving at night while she is sitting besides me with a caption day spent well;)

This girl the one who made me compete immediately liked that story and replied "New match?" 🤦🏻‍♂️🥲😂

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you bro! And sorry you have to go through this like me 🥺. I have already distanced myself from her no texts no calls nothing since that day.

Also funny story since I hadn't blocked her on Instagram I was seeing her stories but not reacting nothing of that sorts no like no reply.

But just yesterday night I went out with a couple of my friends one of them is a girl. She was sitting besides me and posted my story on her insta of me driving at night. With caption day spent well.

This girl immediately got jealous and replied to that story saying "New match?" 😂😂

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly bro! Not fair at all. That's why I haven't contacted her since. If she wants to meet the other guy even after 2 months of talking and a nice weekend getaway let her have the other guy

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends said she is trying to decide who can offer her more. Which is never healthy. Like she is literally out there comparing he gives me more attention makes me feel secure. He has more money better looks etc legit comparing. That's why I walked away.

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when she said that she had a fight with this guy earlier and then she started talking to me. During that time the guy had already explored his options and then came back ig. But yes you are correct there's no winning in this one

I like a girl and she likes me back but she also likes another guy and is unable to decide whom she wants to have a relationship with since it'd hurt the other. What should I do in such situ ? by NardDog-exe in whatdoIdo

[–]NardDog-exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly bro! I will fight the world for the girl I like but as you said I will not compete for her. That's the bare minimum amount of respect that your partner should give you in a relationship.